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81: The Art of Making Friends & How it Helps Us Declutter
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Does it sometimes feel impossible to make real friends in adulthood? And what does that have to do with paring down our lives?
As a military wife, I have to build a new community for our family every three years. And I've found that not only do friendships help us enjoy life, but they're a big reason it's easier to live a life with less. When we know we can rely on neighbors and friends to lend us things, come to our rescue when needed, and generally be a support system, then we are less tempted to use physical possessions as a form of security.
In today's episode, I walk you through tactics I use to make new friends wherever we move, and dive into the power of different types of relationships using "bridging" and "bonding."
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Ep 6: Creating Community in Small Spaces
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Treasures of the Heart: A 7-Day Bible Study on Breaking Free from Material Attachments (free)
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Free Know Your Why Worksheet
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98 episodes
81: The Art of Making Friends & How it Helps Us Declutter
Paring Down: Realistic minimalism, decluttering, & intentional living
Manage episode 478482218 series 3590958
Does it sometimes feel impossible to make real friends in adulthood? And what does that have to do with paring down our lives?
As a military wife, I have to build a new community for our family every three years. And I've found that not only do friendships help us enjoy life, but they're a big reason it's easier to live a life with less. When we know we can rely on neighbors and friends to lend us things, come to our rescue when needed, and generally be a support system, then we are less tempted to use physical possessions as a form of security.
In today's episode, I walk you through tactics I use to make new friends wherever we move, and dive into the power of different types of relationships using "bridging" and "bonding."
Paring Down Instagram: @paring_down
Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE
Ep 6: Creating Community in Small Spaces
PARING DOWN RESOURCES:
Treasures of the Heart: A 7-Day Bible Study on Breaking Free from Material Attachments (free)
Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff
Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas
Free Gift Request Email Template
Free Know Your Why Worksheet
Free Baby Essentials List
CODES:
10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm
For Hers Hair Growth: https://www.forhers.com/paring
Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order!
15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at lumedeodorant.com- use code PARING
Only $1.99 per meal with EveryPlate meal service - code paring199: www.everyplate.com/podcast
20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING
This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring
40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING
$300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING
15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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1 97: Harnessing the Scientific Power of Enthusiasm to Declutter 42:27

1 96: How to Make Your Home Feel Warm & Welcoming with Etiquette Coach, Alison Cheperdak 49:05


1 94: Practical Advice for Living Intentionally with 7x NYT Bestselling Author Gretchen Rubin 1:08:45

1 93: Behind the Scenes of Our Road Trip to Alaska & What I Wish We'd Decluttered 50:06

1 92: Parenting in a World with X-Rated Content with Kristen A. Jenson 59:37

1 91: Things that Feel Illegal to Declutter (But Aren't) 39:37

1 90: How Clutter Affects Our Mental Health with Dr. Brittany Pope 56:43

1 89: The Key to Staying Motivated to Declutter 44:11

1 88: How the Beauty Industry Fuels Overconsumption with Miss America 2014 Nina Davuluri 1:05:52


1 86: Strategies for Getting Your Kids to Declutter 51:17

1 85: Become an Essentialist with NYT Bestselling Author, Greg McKeown 1:16:37

1 84: Learning to Ride the Waves of Clutter Tolerance 39:56

1 83: Making the Most of Our Space with Khrystyne Jaspers 56:30

1 82: The Sweet Spot Between Beauty & Function with Whitney English 50:14

1 81: The Art of Making Friends & How it Helps Us Declutter 46:25

1 80: Be Rich in What Matters with Julia Ubbenga 48:05

1 79: Decluttering Before You Move (or Mock Move) 41:03

1 78: Addressing the Mental Load of Clutter with Dr. Morgan Cutlip 1:10:05


1 76: Is Celebrity Self-Help Advice Useful? with Jim Oliver 59:16


1 74: Removing the Chaos from Our Email Accounts & Desktops with Shawn Lemon 1:03:44

1 73: Avoiding Vacation Clutter: Souvenirs & Vacay Wardrobe 40:30

1 72: Reclaiming the Sacred: Does Money Make Us Happier? with Jeff Golden 57:37

1 71: How Growing Up in a Cult Made Me More Intentional 57:38

1 70: Is Decluttering Just for the Financially Secure? with Aubrey High 57:40

1 69: The Best Principles to Guide Your Decluttering 46:55

1 68: Decluttering for Senior Adults & Their Families with Jeannine Bryant 1:01:44

1 67: 5 Psychological Phenomena that Affect Decluttering & Consumption 44:41

1 66: How to Develop a Minimalish Mindset with Diane Boden 46:38

1 65: Reflection Questions to Live More Intentionally 44:20

1 64: Tweaks to Simplify Your Life with Erin Port 44:06

1 63: A Balanced Approach to Birthday Parties 46:06

1 62: Tidy Up Your Life with Tyler Moore (aka Tidy Dad) 1:03:16


1 60: Decluttering Out of Gratitude with Deanna Yates 51:26


1 58: Spending Money on What We Value with Jen Smith 58:18

1 57: Should We Never Buy Anything Ever Again? 42:30

1 56: What If You Lost Everything? with Lala Hairston 54:16

1 55: The Ripple Effect of Clutter with Laura Carlin 55:33

1 54: How to Keep the Clutter from Coming Back 40:47

1 53: Home Organization Tips with Kenika Williams 57:42

1 52: Getting Past the "Wasted Money" When Decluttering 47:36

1 51: Getting to the Root of Our Clutter with Jenny Albertini 54:36


1 49: The Link Between Money Management & Clutter with Brad Nelson 55:00


1 47: Motivation to Unplug & Enjoy Life with Eric Moeller 1:00:41


1 45: Determining Your Priorities with Ashli Pollard 55:21

1 44: Brainstorming Solutions to Clutter Problem Areas 37:12

1 43: Creating Household Rhythms to Foster Peace with Ben & Brianna Folkman 54:45


1 41: Timeless Truths About Simplicity with Suzanne Johnson 53:47

1 40: Managing Your Busy Schedule Using Time Blocking 36:11

1 39: How Living with Less Inspires Generosity with Ultralight Backpacker Glen Van Peski 1:01:13

1 38: A Shame-Free & Intentional Approach to Screen Time for Kids 47:49
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