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Raising Confident Kids Without Forcing Them Out of Their Shell
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What if I told you that forcing your child to be more social actually harms their confidence? Does it make you cringe when they won't say hello or engage with other kids? If you're tired of pushing your child to be more outgoing and it's just not working, I have a message of hope for you.
Today, I share my journey with my daughter Pia, who was very shy as a child. I used to worry about her lack of engagement and felt that others might perceive her as rude. However, I learned that pushing her only made things worse. I will explain why it is so important to respect a child's intuition and allow them to navigate social situations at their own pace. It's about shifting our mindset and providing support rather than pressure. I will also share practical tips for helping your child feel more comfortable and confident, including acknowledging their feelings, reflecting on positive experiences, and celebrating their strengths.
In This Episode
👉 Respect your child's own pace
👉 Acknowledge their feelings with empathy
👉 Reflect on positive social experiences
👉 Celebrate your child's unique strengths
👉 Shift your mindset about shyness
👉 Offer support, not pressure
Want more on this topic? Check out: Stop Thinking Your Child Is Too Sensitive: Why Tears Don't Mean Fragile
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🔗 Interested in group or 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call today.
💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.
📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!
Follow Peace and Parenting:
Facebook: @peaceandparentingla
Peace and Parenting Facebook Group
Interested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technology
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com
* Click the link for a SPECIAL DISCOUNT at Blueland: https://blueland.com/peace
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
421 episodes
Manage episode 481354017 series 2568118
What if I told you that forcing your child to be more social actually harms their confidence? Does it make you cringe when they won't say hello or engage with other kids? If you're tired of pushing your child to be more outgoing and it's just not working, I have a message of hope for you.
Today, I share my journey with my daughter Pia, who was very shy as a child. I used to worry about her lack of engagement and felt that others might perceive her as rude. However, I learned that pushing her only made things worse. I will explain why it is so important to respect a child's intuition and allow them to navigate social situations at their own pace. It's about shifting our mindset and providing support rather than pressure. I will also share practical tips for helping your child feel more comfortable and confident, including acknowledging their feelings, reflecting on positive experiences, and celebrating their strengths.
In This Episode
👉 Respect your child's own pace
👉 Acknowledge their feelings with empathy
👉 Reflect on positive social experiences
👉 Celebrate your child's unique strengths
👉 Shift your mindset about shyness
👉 Offer support, not pressure
Want more on this topic? Check out: Stop Thinking Your Child Is Too Sensitive: Why Tears Don't Mean Fragile
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🔗 Interested in group or 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call today.
💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.
📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!
Follow Peace and Parenting:
Facebook: @peaceandparentingla
Peace and Parenting Facebook Group
Interested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technology
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com
* Click the link for a SPECIAL DISCOUNT at Blueland: https://blueland.com/peace
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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