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Why Connective Parenting Feels Like It's Failing (and How to Make It Work)

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Ever feel like connection-based parenting just isn’t working? You try play, empathy, and special time, but your child still melts down, refuses to listen, or lashes out. Does that mean connective parenting has failed? Today, I break down the biggest misconceptions about connective parenting, including why it’s often confused with permissiveness, why quick fixes don’t work, and why consistency matters more than perfection.

If you've ever wondered why punishments seem to “work” faster or felt frustrated that your efforts aren’t yielding immediate results, this episode will help you reframe your expectations and find the patience to stick with it. Parenting is a long game, and while the process can be messy, the relationships we build through connection are worth it.

In This Episode

  • Why quick fixes don’t create lasting change
  • The difference between connection and permissiveness
  • How punishments create short-term compliance, not true cooperation
  • Why using all the tools consistently is key
  • The long-term benefits of choosing connection
  • A real-life story of connection turning conflict into cooperation

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🔗 Interested in group or 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call today.

💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.

📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!

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Interested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technology
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Content provided by Michelle Kenney, M. Ed, Michelle Kenney, and M. Ed. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Michelle Kenney, M. Ed, Michelle Kenney, and M. Ed or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://ppacc.player.fm/legal.

Ever feel like connection-based parenting just isn’t working? You try play, empathy, and special time, but your child still melts down, refuses to listen, or lashes out. Does that mean connective parenting has failed? Today, I break down the biggest misconceptions about connective parenting, including why it’s often confused with permissiveness, why quick fixes don’t work, and why consistency matters more than perfection.

If you've ever wondered why punishments seem to “work” faster or felt frustrated that your efforts aren’t yielding immediate results, this episode will help you reframe your expectations and find the patience to stick with it. Parenting is a long game, and while the process can be messy, the relationships we build through connection are worth it.

In This Episode

  • Why quick fixes don’t create lasting change
  • The difference between connection and permissiveness
  • How punishments create short-term compliance, not true cooperation
  • Why using all the tools consistently is key
  • The long-term benefits of choosing connection
  • A real-life story of connection turning conflict into cooperation

========

🔗 Interested in group or 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call today.

💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.

📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!

Follow Peace and Parenting:

YouTube: @peaceandparentingla

Instagram: @peaceandparenting

Facebook: @peaceandparentingla

Peace and Parenting Facebook Group


Interested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technology
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Blueland: https://blueland.com/peace
* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
  continue reading

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