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Why Letting Go of Control Could Be the Best Parenting Move You Make
Manage episode 453919746 series 2568118
Can we truly control our children, or are we simply deluding ourselves? Imagine a world where we don't force our kids to do things, but instead, they genuinely want to cooperate because of the loving relationship we share. Today, I explore why letting go of control can lead to a more harmonious and joyful parenting journey.
Many believe that trying to control our kids through threats, bribes, or even physical punishment will produce the desired behavior. However, in the long run, these tactics are unsustainable and damaging. In this episode, I’ll share insights on how coercive methods can fracture the parent-child relationship, hindering long-term influence and true cooperation.
In This Episode:
- The pitfalls of parenting through control
- Shifting focus from behavior control to connection
- How coercion severs parent-child relationships in the long run
- The power of influence over manipulation
- Redefining discipline as a form of teaching
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💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.
📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!
Follow Peace and Parenting:
Facebook: @peaceandparentingla
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Interested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technology
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427 episodes
Manage episode 453919746 series 2568118
Can we truly control our children, or are we simply deluding ourselves? Imagine a world where we don't force our kids to do things, but instead, they genuinely want to cooperate because of the loving relationship we share. Today, I explore why letting go of control can lead to a more harmonious and joyful parenting journey.
Many believe that trying to control our kids through threats, bribes, or even physical punishment will produce the desired behavior. However, in the long run, these tactics are unsustainable and damaging. In this episode, I’ll share insights on how coercive methods can fracture the parent-child relationship, hindering long-term influence and true cooperation.
In This Episode:
- The pitfalls of parenting through control
- Shifting focus from behavior control to connection
- How coercion severs parent-child relationships in the long run
- The power of influence over manipulation
- Redefining discipline as a form of teaching
========
🔗 Interested in group or 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call today.
💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.
📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!
Follow Peace and Parenting:
Facebook: @peaceandparentingla
Peace and Parenting Facebook Group
Interested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technology
Our Sponsors:
* Check out Blueland: https://blueland.com/peace
* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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