Your Next Decision Could Change Everything

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Justin and Tricia Davis share their powerful insights on how one choice can transform relationships and break harmful cycles that hold us back.
• Founders of Refine Us Ministries, focused on rebuilding healthy marriages since 2012
• Authors of "One Choice Away from Change" and other relationship books
• Transformation starts with a single choice, not figuring everything out at once
• Rock bottom provides a solid surface to stand and make new choices
• Heart transformation differs from behavior modification - it's deeper and lasting
• Guilt vs shame: conviction says what you did is wrong; shame says you are wrong
• Brokenness isn't punishment but preparation for becoming a different person
• Regret can be leveraged to create a different future rather than dwelling on the past
• Forgiveness is a process, not a one-time event
• Forgiveness is free, but trust must be earned
• Boundaries are loving acts, not rejection
• Forgiveness may not restore relationships but always restores your heart
What choice could you make today that would cause your future self to write you a thank-you letter?

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Chapters

1. Your Next Decision Could Change Everything (00:00:00)

2. Meeting Justin and Tricia Davis (00:00:48)

3. One Choice Away From Change (00:03:15)

4. Embracing Brokenness vs. Hiding (00:08:17)

5. Understanding Guilt vs. Shame (00:14:24)

6. The Process of Forgiveness (00:18:51)

7. Forgiveness vs. Trust (00:22:38)