Almost Famous: Pseudo Self Vs Solid Self and The Transformative Power of Music

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S2 Ep8: Almost Famous is now 20 years old and being celebrated again as one of director Cameron Crowes best films of all time. Sweet, deep, real and lovely, this film is a favourite of music lovers and rock gods. Avrum and Ellie dive into discussions around who we really think we are versus who we are, the importance of right distance as parents to get good feedback and how music can really give us a new experience of life and ourselves.

Click here to learn more about Avrum's family therapy practice.

Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute.

Click here to learn more about Ellie's coaching practice.

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Almost Famous: Pseudo Self Vs Solid Self and The Transformative Power of Music

Pop Parenting

published 4 years ago

M4A•Episode home

Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?"

Click here to learn more about Avrum's family therapy practice.

Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute.

Click here to learn more about Ellie's coaching practice.

We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi!

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#Parenting #Kids And Families #JFI Pop Parenting

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Charlie and The Chocolate Factory: Are Parents Really the Culprit? 1:05:16

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S2 Ep15: In this episode Avrum and Ellie talk about the movie Charlie and The Chocolate Factory with Johnny Depp. This movie is a feast for themes on parenting, but we focus on fault. Is it totally the parents fault when kids behave badly? How much are parents really to blame for how their kids turn out? PLEASE NOTE! We are about to change the focus of this podcast! Don't worry, a big announcement next episode plus a lookback at our favourites, and we can't wait to lauch the new season with you all in the next few weeks! We think you are going to love it. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's practice Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Click here to learn more about Ellie's coaching We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/popparenting/message…

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Little Miss Sunshine: Families Living in a Fantasy World and How Reality Bites 54:27

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In this episode Avrum and Ellie talk about the movie Little Miss Sunshine and the idea of what happens when fantasy is the only coping mechanism in a family, and how if even one person decides to get real and grow up, that can help change an entire system, be it a family, community or nation. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's practice Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Click here to learn more about Ellie's coaching We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/popparenting/message…

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Igby Goes Down: The Consequences of Family Secrets 50:23

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S2 Ep13: This episode Avrum and Ellie watched Igby Goes Down, a dark, tragic movie that explores the tangled web of family secrets, and how they can both protect and destroy a family from the inside. Aside from Ellie’s deep dislike of the characters, we are looking at themes around marital infidelity, being on the inside of a secret and how to recover and free yourself from secrets are part of this discussion. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's practice Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Click here to learn more about Ellie's coaching We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/popparenting/message…

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The Family Stone: Theory of Displacement and Families We Hate 59:38

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This week Avrum and Ellie are digging into The Family Stone. An annoying film with a ton of great themes about family dynamics, they are kibbitzing about displacement, being in reality, family secrets, and allowing for small moments of grief and change. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's practice Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Click here to learn more about Ellie's coaching We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/popparenting/message…

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Something's Gotta Give: The Crucible of Commitment and Chest Pains 58:21

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S2 Ep11: This week Avrum and Ellie are exploring the movie Something’s Gotta Give with Jack Nicholson and Diane Keaton. This film brings up issues around chronically anxious families and the deep roots of non-connection, and the crucible of commitment. We delve into actors playing roles that reflect their lives, and how physical pain can express emotional injury. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's practice Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Click here to learn more about Ellie's coaching We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/popparenting/message…

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Up In the Air: George Clooney, Backpacks and Marital Affairs 47:28

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S2 Ep10: This 2009 movie starring George Clooney and Anna Kendrick is a meditation and exploration of who we are and what we do. In this episode Avrum and Ellie explore the idea of "functional self" vs "core self" and whether our life covenants and laws have been updated to fit with our current circumstances, and how that affects our parenting and families. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's practice Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Click here to learn more about Ellie's coaching We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/popparenting/message…

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Lost In Translation: How are Bob's kids and Is Charlotte Part of the Problem? 1:00:24

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S2 Ep9: Sofia Coppola's movie Lost In Translation is filled with the coolest soundtrack, a stellar cast (Bill Murray is incredible as always) and the moody questioning of life that moves us all into a new frame of mind. This movie propels Avrum and Ellie to ask about whether kids really are affected by the absence of a parent, whether teens are really suffering during this pandemic to the degree we think they are, and is Charlotte (played by Scarlett Johansson) really the catalyst of her own loneliness? Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's practice Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Click here to learn more about Ellie's coaching We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/popparenting/message…

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Almost Famous: Pseudo Self Vs Solid Self and The Transformative Power of Music 1:10:57

4 years ago1:10:57

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S2 Ep8: Almost Famous is now 20 years old and being celebrated again as one of director Cameron Crowes best films of all time. Sweet, deep, real and lovely, this film is a favourite of music lovers and rock gods. Avrum and Ellie dive into discussions around who we really think we are versus who we are, the importance of right distance as parents to get good feedback and how music can really give us a new experience of life and ourselves. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's family therapy practice . Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute . Click here to learn more about Ellie's coaching practice. We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/popparenting/message…

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Winter's Bone: Blood, Kin and the Strength of Burden 54:19

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Winter's Bone is a sparse haunting film starring Jennifer Lawrence and Avrum and Ellie take a journey through this moving film and discuss dealing with the harsh realities of life, the essential power of family and when is "toxic" really toxic? Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's practice Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Click here to learn more about Ellie's coaching We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/popparenting/message…

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The Namesake: Cultural Difference and Emotional Growth 58:40

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S2 Ep6: The 2006 Mira Nair film The Namesake is a beautiful film about love, marriage, families and creating your life. Avrum and Ellie use this film to delve into parents hopes for their kids, raising teens and the implications of deep cultural ties to a modern life. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us live on our Zoom? Click here! We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/popparenting/message…

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Napoleon Dynamite: Friendship, True Selves and Mirrors 42:20

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Ellie was forced to watch Napoleon Dynamite this week, but ended up really digging what there is to learn from it about friendship, differentiation of self and how longing for the past can make a mess of your present. Avrum feels vindicated. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Want to join us live on our Zoom? Click here! We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi! Please subscribe if you like this podcast and leave us a review! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/popparenting/message…

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Mean Girls: Internality and Externality, Mother Daughter Fusion and Burn Books 55:12

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S2 Ep 5: This week Avrum and Ellie are exploring the movie Mean Girls. The 2004 cult classic is a hilarious look at teens, queen bees and how to topple the popularity system. This movie gets us talking about what we focus on and value in our families, and how that impacts the next generation, and how mothers and teen daughters can be a complicated system unto themselves. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's practice Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Click here to learn more about Ellie's coaching We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/popparenting/message…

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The Royal Tenenbaums: Emotional Shockwaves in Families and How We Cope 52:17

4 years ago52:17

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The Royal Tenenbaums is one of our favourites so far, so many juicy family dynamics, but we are focusing on the emotional shockwave when Chaz, played by Ben Stiller, loses his wife to a tragic accident, and how he copes or doesn't, and how we are all looking for ways to manage sudden change and Avrum and Ellie point to some powerful ideas to help us go forward. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's practice Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Click here to learn more about Ellie's coaching We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/popparenting/message…

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High Fidelity: No Relationship Will Fix You 47:46

4 years ago47:46

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This week Avrum and Ellie are exploring the movie High Fidelity. A musical masterpiece and superfun trip through relationship dissection and the realization that getting the love you want won't come from other people. Click here to check out Avrum's new book "Where Would You Like To Start?" Click here to learn more about Avrum's practice Click here to learn more about The Yetta Nashman Jewish Family Institute Click here to learn more about Ellie's coaching We want to hear from you! Click here to leave us a voice message letting us know how you like the podcast, giving us your movie recommendations or just saying hi! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/popparenting/message…

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Gladiator: The Roots of Being Unloved 58:47

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