Setting Boundaries In 2024: Why They Matter For Anxious & Overwhelmed Women Priorities On Purpose: Get Out Of Survival Mode, Eliminate Distractions, Find Your Focus, And Grow With Jesus podcast

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In this Summer Throwback episode of Priorities on Purpose , we go way back into the vault to revisit a powerful message from 2023. Christian Life Coach Melissa Batt shares a deeply vulnerable story about speaking at her church—an experience that stirred up old insecurities, perfectionism, and a desire for validation. If you've ever felt nervous doing something new, wondered if you’re “good enough,” or wished you could show up more polished and confident—this one’s for you. Melissa opens up about what it really looks like to say yes in faith even when you don’t feel ready, and how God uses our courage, not our perfection, to make an impact. This episode is packed with wisdom for women who are tired of waiting until they feel “qualified” and ready to start doing the things God is calling them to do. Because guess what? You don’t have to feel ready to be obedient. Key Takeaways: [00:02] - Behind-the-Scenes of Speaking at Church Melissa shares her experience battling nerves and the pressure to “perform” while speaking at her church—and how her insecurities showed up in unexpected ways. [06:45] - Chasing Validation vs. Obeying God God reveals a deeper message: You’re not called to impress, you’re called to show up and be real. There’s power in showing up messy. [10:40] - When Your Weakness Inspires Someone Else What you see as insecurity or not being ready may be the very thing that encourages someone else to take their next step. [13:15] - The Stress of Doing Something New From dance recital prep to flying solo—Melissa shares everyday examples of why we need to normalize asking for help and not knowing what we’re doing right away. [18:25] - Let Go of the Pressure to Arrive You don’t need to appear as though you have it all together. Growth happens when you’re willing to start scared and learn as you go. [22:10] - Eyes on Jesus, Not the Distractions or the Outcome A reminder that walking in obedience means trusting God with the process, not waiting to feel confident or polished first. 🌟 Feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or stretched too thin? If you know something needs to change but you’re not sure where to start—Operation Reset is for you. This free 5-day workshop will help you reclaim your time, realign your priorities, and create space for what truly matters. 🎯 Join here: melissabatt.com/operation-reset Connect with Melissa: Website: melissabatt.com Instagram: @melissabattofficial…

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Embracing Insecurities: How God Uses What We Want to Hide [Summer Throwback] 27:10

10 days ago27:10

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In this powerful Summer Throwback episode of Priorities on Purpose , Christian Life Coach Melissa Batt opens up about one of her longest-standing insecurities—her broad shoulders—and the beautiful, redemptive work God did through them. What started as a physical insecurity became a sacred moment of purpose when Melissa helped care for her dying grandmother. This story is not just about body image; it’s about every woman who has ever felt “too much” or “not enough.” Melissa shares how God can use what we try to hide, even the parts we wish were different, for His glory and for the healing of others. Get ready for a vulnerable, hope-filled reminder that nothing in your story is wasted. If you’ve ever struggled with insecurities, body image, or feeling like your weaknesses disqualify you, this episode will speak straight to your heart. Key Takeaways: [00:02] - Welcome & Real Talk About Insecurities Melissa shares how God began healing deep-rooted insecurities, including those tied to her physical appearance and mental health struggles. [03:47] - Naming the Lies We Believe She reflects on the lies she told herself for years—about worth, value, and being seen—and how God began rewriting those false narratives. [06:10] - The Insecurity That Held Her Back: Her Shoulders Melissa opens up about decades of hiding her broad shoulders, only to realize God had a purpose for them she couldn’t have imagined. [11:58] - The Sacred Moment That Changed Everything Melissa recounts the moment her dying grandmother felt safe and secure—because of the very thing Melissa always tried to hide. [17:36] - Praying for Gentleness and Receiving Unexpected Purpose God used this experience to grow gentleness in her and reveal how He uses every detail—even the ones we dislike—for His plan. [21:24] - From Shame to Surrender Melissa encourages listeners to stop hiding their insecurities and begin surrendering them to God, knowing He can use them for good. [25:12] - Let the Tears Fall & Let the Healing Begin Tears are not weakness. Melissa invites listeners to stop holding their breath, let themselves feel, and let God start the healing process. 💡 Call to Action: Is your insecurity holding you back? You’re not alone. Let's chat about it. Reach out to Melissa today at melissabattcoaching@gmail.com Connect with Melissa: Website: melissabatt.com Instagram: @melissabattofficial…

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When You Can’t Hear from God: The Real Reason You’re Feeling Spiritually Stuck [Summer Throwback] 35:20

18 days ago35:20

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In this special summer throwback episode of Priorities on Purpose , Christian Life Coach Melissa Batt dives into the deeper reason so many women feel disconnected from God—and what to do about it. If you've been overwhelmed, exhausted, and struggling to hear God's voice, you're not alone… and you can get back on track. Melissa shares personal reflections from a sugar fast and how it opened her ears to spiritual clarity like never before. She unpacks four powerful reasons you might be spiritually stuck—and reveals what it means to truly get your house in order (hint: it’s not just about your physical home). This episode will challenge and encourage you to examine your relationship with God, your daily distractions, and your willingness to speak up when He nudges you. It's time to break survival mode, quiet the noise, and get back to the voice of truth. Key Takeaways: [01:08] - How Fasting Helps You Hear God Melissa shares how a 21-day sugar fast clarified her connection with God—and why fasting isn’t about God speaking more, but you listening better. [04:17] - The Prophetic Gift You Might Be Ignoring How a podcast episode with Christy Wright helped Melissa recognize a spiritual gift she had been hesitant to name. [08:28] - Why God Is Calling You to Speak Up Now It doesn’t start on a stage—it starts in private obedience. Melissa shares how God is inviting His daughters to use their voices in new ways. [10:40] - 4 Spiritual Concerns God Revealed Melissa outlines four reasons so many Christians can’t hear from God: noise, lack of time with Him, insecurity, and misplaced priorities. [17:21] - Is Your Wagon Exposed? A deep dive into the “circle the wagon” metaphor—what it means to get your life, home, and heart in order before spiritual attack hits. [23:47] - Jeremiah’s Insecurities and Yours Melissa connects her story (and yours) with Jeremiah’s calling—and what it looks like when God equips you to speak boldly even when you feel unqualified. [29:30] - What Walls Are Missing in Your Life? The four “walls” God showed Melissa—faith, finances, health, and home—and why ignoring them leaves you vulnerable to distraction and attack. [33:17] - Are You Pointing People to Jesus? Melissa challenges you to evaluate how you show up online and in person—and whether your life reflects the hope and clarity you’ve been given. Feel like there's never enough time to do what matters most? Download my free guide: Take Your Time Back —with 8 quick questions and 15 practical tips to help you find focus, margin, and peace. melissabatt.com/take-your-time-back-guide Ready to start rebuilding the walls in your life with someone in your corner? Learn more about 1-on-1 coaching: melissabatt.com/breakthrough-coaching Connect with Melissa: Website: melissabatt.com Instagram: @melissabattofficial…

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When God Calls You to Speak Up: Obedience, Courage, and Counting the Cost [Summer Throwback] 27:51

25 days ago27:51

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In this powerful summer throwback episode of Priorities on Purpose , Christian Life Coach Melissa Batt shares her personal journey of learning to speak up—even when it’s uncomfortable, costly, or feels completely out of character. God-sized dreams often require God-sized courage. But what if the first step isn’t starting something new… it’s using your voice in small, obedient ways? Melissa opens up about the fears she had to overcome (hello insecurity, fear of judgment, and people-pleasing), the spiral of silence that holds so many women back, and the reminder that not speaking up can actually become a sin of omission. She also shares a humbling real-life moment where she got it wrong—and what God showed her through it. If you’ve ever felt like you were meant for more but stayed silent because of fear, doubt, or discomfort, this episode will remind you that your voice matters—and your obedience is part of the breakthrough. Key Takeaways: [00:02] - Speaking Up When It’s Scary Melissa reflects on the first time she felt God telling her to speak up—and why it terrified her. [02:58] - Fear of Being Seen & Judged Why using your voice often feels risky, especially for those who’ve been overlooked or wounded. [05:10] - The Spiral of Silence How silence can unintentionally normalize things that go against truth, and what it means to break that cycle. [07:21] - You Are Worthy of the Calling Encouragement for the woman who doesn’t believe her voice matters (spoiler: it does). [13:24] - From Small Acts to Big Obedience Melissa shares how the early steps of obedience gave her courage to speak up in much harder situations later. [14:12] - When Silence Becomes a Sin Scriptural reminders (James 4:17, 1 John 4) of what God expects from us when using our voice. [18:50] - Counting the Cost & Preparing for the Call The importance of positioning yourself to obey God, even when the stakes are high. [21:09] - Why Melissa Left Direct Sales The behind-the-scenes story of leaving her successful business to pursue a heavier calling. [22:25] - When Speaking Up Goes Too Far A vulnerable moment of conviction and real talk about the fine line between boldness and drama. [26:42] - Speak Up. Let It Out. Be Stripped. Melissa shares a journal entry outlining three key seasons God led her through: using her voice, releasing emotions, and shedding false identity. Could your voice be the very thing that brings breakthrough? Find out what’s holding you back by taking this free quiz: melissabatt.com/unstuck-quiz Learn more about 1-on-1 coaching here: melissabatt.com/breakthrough-coaching Connect with Melissa: Website: melissabatt.com Instagram: @melissabattofficial…

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When Church Hurts: Finding Jesus Again with Natalie Runion [Summer Throwback] 35:02

5 weeks ago35:02

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Have you ever been hurt by the Church and wondered if you should stay or walk away? In this powerful Summer Throwback episode of Priorities on Purpose , Melissa Batt sits down with author and founder of the Raised to Stay movement, Natalie Runion, for an unfiltered conversation about navigating church hurt, rediscovering Jesus through the pain, and learning what it truly means to “stay.” Natalie shares her personal story of disappointment, deconstruction, and healing—offering hope to anyone who’s felt let down by spiritual leadership or disillusioned by church culture. Together, Melissa and Natalie talk about what healthy churches actually look like, what to do when leaders fall, and how to stay rooted in Jesus even when you're wrestling with His people. Whether you’ve left the church, feel like an outsider, or are cautiously finding your way back, this episode reminds you that you’re not alone—and God still has a purpose for you in His Church. ✨ Want more? Continue the conversation in Part 2: Healing the Orphan Spirit & Being Seen in the Church as Melissa and Natalie go deeper into identity, rejection, and what it means to be truly known by God. Key Takeaways: [00:02] – A Divine Connection Melissa shares how she discovered Natalie’s account and why their messages aligned—even from opposite church experiences. [04:18] – Natalie’s Background & Burnout Growing up in ministry, Natalie opens up about her family’s church wounds and what pulled her back into leading others toward Jesus. [06:42] – What It Means to Be 'Raised to Stay' The moment God gave Natalie this phrase, what it means, and how it birthed a movement of believers staying grounded in Christ. [10:01] – Discernment vs. Criticism Learn the difference between inspecting spiritual fruit and nitpicking preferences—and why it matters for those seeking healthy churches. [16:12] – Staying or Leaving? Ask This First. How to know when you're called to bring change to a ministry—or released to grow somewhere new. [20:38] – Is Church Membership Biblical or Just a Numbers Game? Natalie breaks down how denominations handle membership, why it’s fading, and what spiritual commitment really looks like. [24:19] – Refocusing on Jesus, Not Just Church Culture Melissa and Natalie talk about how church messaging can shift away from Jesus and how to bring it back to what really matters. [28:37] – You Don’t Need a Title to Make an Impact The story of one woman, a quiet act of obedience, and a powerful reminder that you don’t need to be on staff to serve well. 📚 Pre-Order Natalie’s Newest Book! If this conversation spoke to you, don’t miss Natalie Runion’s upcoming release: I Don’t Even Like Women: And Other Lies That Get in the Way of Sacred Sisterhood This book tackles the lies, wounds, and walls that keep women isolated and invites us back into real, healing sisterhood rooted in grace and truth. 👉 Pre-order your copy here Take the Free Quiz Are you stuck or simply exhausted from trying to hold it all together? https://melissabatt.com/get-unstuck-quiz Ready for breakthrough? Let’s get serious about living on purpose. melissabatt.com/breakthrough-coaching Connect with Melissa: Website: melissabatt.com Instagram: @melissabattofficial Want to win a free call with me? Sign up here: https://bit.ly/freecallforchristianwomen…

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What It’s Like to Work with a Christian Life Coach (And Why It Helps You Get Unstuck Faster) [Summer Throwback] 28:01

6 weeks ago28:01

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In this Summer Throwback episode of Priorities on Purpose , Melissa Batt, Christian Life Coach and Faith Mentor, answers one of the most common questions she receives: “What does a life coach actually do?” Melissa shares behind-the-scenes stories, client examples, and the transformational framework she uses to help overwhelmed women realign their priorities, get unstuck, and move forward in faith. If you’ve ever wondered how coaching works, what topics you can bring to a session, or whether coaching could help you with your specific struggles—this episode is for you. You’ll hear how Melissa supports her clients with everything from building consistent habits and strengthening marriages to managing anxiety, decluttering homes, and healing from emotional burnout—all while keeping Jesus at the center. Whether you're just curious or ready to take the next step, this episode offers clarity and encouragement to help you move forward. 🔑 Key Takeaways: [00:01] – Welcome & Why Melissa Calls Herself a Faith Mentor Melissa shares the heart behind her coaching and what it means to help women grow closer to Jesus while moving forward with purpose. [04:05] – What Coaching with Melissa Looks Like From prioritizing your health and relationships to making big life decisions, learn how Melissa walks clients through creating intentional action plans. [06:55] – Why the 12 Weeks of Success Framework Works Melissa explains how she guides clients through realistic goal setting, building habits, and overcoming obstacles—one baby step at a time. [12:21] – Real Life Coaching Examples Get a peek into client wins and breakthroughs, including building fun into the lives of high achievers and learning to stop numbing out with busy work. [15:17] – Melissa’s 4-Step Coaching Framework Identify what’s working, define your goals, create a doable action plan, and stay accountable through weekly support and voice memos. [21:12] – Why Hiring a Coach Removes Guilt for Givers Melissa shares why investing in coaching is especially powerful for women who often feel guilty asking for support. [24:01] – Is Coaching Forever? Not Necessarily. Coaching is meant to equip you to move forward—sometimes fast. Hear why many of Melissa’s clients don’t need long-term coaching to experience transformation. [27:28] – Want to Learn More About Coaching? Melissa invites you to reach out if you're curious, and reminds listeners that coaching is not just about goals—it’s about growing with God. 💬 Need quick clarity or support to get unstuck? Melissa is now offering a limited number of one-time sessions for women who need focused support without a long-term commitment. If you're ready to make progress but don't need full coaching right now, this could be the perfect next step. 👉 To learn more or purchase a single session, email https://melissabatt.com/take-your-time-back-guide Connect with Melissa: Website: melissabatt.com Email: melissa@melissabatt.com If this episode helped you, share it with a friend and leave a quick review! Your words help more overwhelmed women find hope, support, and a way forward.…

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How to Embrace Rejection, Overcome Fear, and Live Victoriously with Tracey Mitchell [Summer Throwback] 47:23

7 weeks ago47:23

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Rejection doesn’t have to define you. In this episode of Priorities on Purpose , Melissa sits down with award-winning author Tracey Mitchell to talk about overcoming fear, finding courage, and cultivating a victorious life with Jesus at the center. They dive into how God uses rejection as redirection, why courage is a choice, and how to move forward even when you're discouraged or tired of getting knocked down. Tracy shares her story of writing Becoming Brave in the middle of five life-altering tragedies—and how those painful moments turned into purpose. 💡 Originally released earlier this year, this Summer Throwback episode is one of our most downloaded—and it still speaks to what so many of us are navigating today. Key Takeaways: [00:00] - Meet Tracey Mitchell & the Story Behind Becoming Brave Melissa shares how this book helped her break free from fear and victimhood. [05:00] - When God Calls Introverts Into Public Roles Tracey reflects on saying yes to God—even when it feels uncomfortable. [08:00] - Writing Through Crisis: 5 Tragedies in 28 Days Why Becoming Brave wasn’t written from theory, but from the trenches. [12:00] - Courage vs. Fearless What’s the difference—and why do they go together [15:00] - Letting Go of Resentment & Bitterness Practical insights for when you're not ready to forgive but know you need to. [21:00] - Rejection as a Gift How God uses rejection to protect and position us for His purpose. [26:00] - “Daughter Over Doing” A powerful reminder for high-achievers trying to earn God’s favor. [30:00] - Baby Steps & Mailbox Moments Melissa shares the simple step that got her out of bed—and changed her life. [38:00] - Encouragement for the Woman Who Wants to Give Up Tracey offers a heartfelt word and prayer for the woman who feels done. 🌟 Want to win a free coaching call with Melissa? https://bit.ly/freecallforchristianwomen 🎯 Ready to say YES to 1-on-1 support and get a coaching package? Click here: https://melissabatt.com/breakthrough-coaching Connect with Melissa: Website: melissabatt.com Instagram: @melissabattofficial Book a consult to see if we are a good fit: Book Consult Connect with Tracey Mitchell: Website: www.traceymitchell.com Tracey's books: Becoming Brave , Fearless , Downside Up Subscribe & Share: If this conversation spoke to you, share it with a friend who needs encouragement. Your review helps more women find the hope and healing they need.…

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The Church’s Blind Spot: Why Being Pro-Life Means More Than You Think with Bri Stensrud 1:01:27

7 weeks ago1:01:27

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In this powerful and timely episode of Priorities on Purpose , Melissa sits down with Bri Stensrud, author of Start with Welcome and Director of Women of Welcome, for a conversation that every Christian needs to hear—especially those who call themselves pro-life. Bri shares her journey from traditional pro-life advocacy into a deeper, more biblical understanding of whole-life advocacy, challenging listeners to care for the unborn and the immigrant, the orphan and the refugee, the poor, the widow, the imprisoned, and the unseen. This conversation isn’t about politics—it’s about conviction, compassion, and obedience to what Scripture actually says. If you're ready to let go of fear, stop othering people, and start loving your neighbor like Jesus does, this episode will stretch and encourage you in the best way. ✨ Key Takeaways: [00:00] - Holy Spirit-Led Conversation Begins Melissa shares how this episode took a different turn than expected—and why it’s exactly what we need. [05:20] - Reading Start with Welcome Melissa reflects on how Bri’s book opened her eyes and changed her perspective on immigration. [07:42] - What It Means to Be Whole Life Bri explains how her pro-life work expanded into a broader biblical call to care for the vulnerable. [18:31] - God's Call to the Church We revisit what Scripture says about the “quartet of the vulnerable”: the orphan, widow, sojourner, and the poor. [29:18] - Real Stories That Shifted Everything Bri shares heart-wrenching experiences with young migrant girls that reshaped her view of advocacy. [36:00] - Where Do We Start? Simple, practical first steps for Christians who feel convicted but overwhelmed. [52:32] - Breaking Through Fear and Inaction Melissa and Bri challenge listeners to get out of their comfort zones and do something with their compassion. [59:10] - How to Join Women of Welcome Learn how to plug into a nonpartisan, Christ-centered community of women passionate about biblical hospitality and justice. Grab the Book: Start with Welcome: The Journey Toward a Confident and Compassionate Immigration Conversation Explore Women of Welcome: www.womenofwelcome.com Connect with Melissa: Website: melissabatt.com Instagram: @melissabattofficial Want to learn more about working together 1 on 1: https://bit.ly/3RbfwJf…

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Ready or Not, God Says Go: Obedience, Influence & Leading with Purpose with Misty Phillip 49:59

9 weeks ago49:59

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If you’re waiting to feel ready before doing what God has asked you to do, this episode is for you. Melissa Batt is joined by author, speaker, and new tech entrepreneur Misty Phillip to talk about her book, Spark Your Influence: Inspiring Women to Lead with Boldness, Purpose, and Passion . Together, they unpack what it really looks like to say yes to God in every season—even when it doesn’t make sense, even when fear creeps in, and especially when you’re tempted to stay stuck in the what-ifs . From burnout and surrender to major pivots and trusting God’s redirection, this honest conversation is full of wisdom for Christian women who feel called to more but are unsure how to move. Whether you’re leading in your home, at work, in ministry, or simply trying to show up with purpose, this is your reminder to stop holding back and start walking in faith-driven obedience. Key Takeaways: [00:00] - Welcome & Guest Intro Melissa introduces Misty Phillip and the powerful message behind Spark Your Influence , a book about leading boldly through obedience to God. [06:46] - Rejection, Obedience & the Fear That Holds Us Back Misty speaks into Melissa’s personal fear of rejection, reminding listeners that saying no often says more about others than it does about you. [10:54] - When God Says Go (Even If You Don’t Feel Ready) Scriptural insight on why the Bible tells us to "go" even more than it says "do not fear"—and how to take that first step in faith. [14:18] - Every Woman is a Leader You don’t need a platform or a microphone to lead. Misty explains how influence starts at home, in your community, and through your daily decisions. [25:59] - When Dreams Shift: Obedience in Unexpected Seasons Melissa and Misty share personal stories of surrendering dreams and discovering God’s better plan—even when it meant laying something down. [30:57] - Misty's Pivot into Tech and a New Season of Obedience Hear how God led Misty to leave her podcasting business and join her husband in a completely different industry—and how obedience opened new doors. [38:01] - Feeling Stuck? What God Might Be Doing in the Waiting Sometimes being stuck isn’t punishment—it’s preparation. Misty shares the power of staying connected to God while waiting on what’s next. [44:34] - Burnout, Rest & Sabbath as Strategy Rest isn’t lazy—it’s holy. Learn how honoring God with rest fuels your calling instead of slowing it down. ✨ Take the Next Step: Tired of waiting for the “right time”? God already gave you permission—say yes and move forward. ➡️ Grab Misty’s book: Spark Your Influence — wherever books are sold! ➡️ Want clarity on your next step? Book a free Breakthrough Blueprint Session with Melissa: https://bit.ly/3RbfwJf ➡️ Learn more about 1-on-1 coaching: melissabatt.com/breakthrough-coaching Connect with Misty Phillip: Website: mistyphillip.com Instagram: @mistyphillip Podcast: It is Time to Stand Up Connect with Melissa: Website: melissabatt.com Instagram: @melissabattofficial Free workshop: Operation Reset Subscribe & Share: If this episode spoke to you, send it to a friend or screenshot it and tag us on Instagram. Let’s help more women walk out their God-given calling—with boldness, purpose, and faith.…

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[REPLAY] Vision, Boundaries, and Breakthroughs: How to Stay Focused When Distractions and Doubt Creep In 29:00

9 weeks ago29:00

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In this replay episode of Priorities on Purpose , Melissa Batt brings the heat with real talk on what it takes to pursue your God-given vision—without letting distractions, doubt, or fear derail your progress. Originally recorded during a Facebook Live, this conversation dives into the hard but necessary baby steps that will challenge and change you: from saying no to good things that aren’t God things, to building a battle plan for the hard days, and even confronting why you might be avoiding investing in your growth. Whether you’re struggling with feeling stuck, unsure of what’s next, or just overwhelmed with the pressure to be everything to everyone—this episode is for you. ✨ Key Takeaways: [00:51] – Melissa’s journey into coaching and how clarity came from one question [03:49] – Why keeping your long-term vision front and center is everything [05:35] – Distractions vs. divine assignments: how to know the difference [07:25] – When God calls you out of your comfort zone (even if it’s a women’s event you don’t want to go to) [09:09] – Creating your battle plan: church, community, and the power of prayer [13:38] – The mindset shift: why investing in yourself isn't selfish—it's necessary [17:25] – What kind of coach or resource is actually worth your money [20:04] – Favorite tools that helped Melissa build her business and stay focused [23:48] – Why clarity comes from action and not just waiting for the perfect plan [27:28] – Behind the scenes of Melissa’s early coaching rates and growth journey 🔥 Call to Action: Are you tired of feeling stuck or like you’re going in circles? Let's schedule a call to get you moving back in the direction of your dreams. https://bit.ly/3RbfwJf…

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Friendship That Heals: Courage, Vulnerability, and Showing Up on Purpose (Part 2) 33:19

11 weeks ago33:19

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In Part 2 of this powerful conversation with The Friendship Tour podcast host, Cecilia Curtis, Melissa Batt dives even deeper into what it really takes to build and maintain meaningful friendships. They explore the unseen mental health cost of staying isolated, how small acts of kindness can shift someone’s entire day, and why vulnerability, not perfection, is what true friendship is built on. From showing up for others without expecting anything in return, to working through past wounds that may be holding you back from receiving love, this episode reminds us that friendship is not only part of a fulfilled life—it’s Kingdom work . If you've ever felt alone, stuck in a pattern of surface-level relationships, or unsure how to truly connect with others, this episode will help you take the next step with faith and intention. Key Takeaways: [00:00] - The Crisis of Disconnection Melissa reflects on how phones and screens contribute to isolation, and how small gestures like eye contact or compliments can change someone's day. [03:01] - The Power of Simple Encouragement Why recognizing someone’s effort, whether it’s parenting or a good outfit, can be a powerful act of love. [05:10] - Letting Go of the Need for Reciprocity Cecilia reminds us that friendship isn’t transactional. Blessing others is part of living a life of purpose. [08:21] - When It’s Hard to Receive Love A discussion about how trauma, past hurt, and personal growth play a role in giving and receiving connection. [10:27] - Friendship Requires Courage Melissa compares making friends to stepping out of the boat like Peter—scary, but possible when we keep our eyes on Jesus. [13:27] - Teaching the Next Generation to Keep Showing Up Melissa shares a heart-wrenching story about her daughter’s struggle with friendship and how to stay hopeful through transitions. [15:59] - How to Maintain Long-Distance Friendships Cecilia shares practical ways to nurture relationships—even from across the country. [19:44] - Creating Space for Friendship Tips on building room in your schedule and heart to prioritize the relationships that matter most. [21:29] - Real Friends vs. Surface-Level Connections Not every friendship has to be deep, but the most meaningful ones come from time, trust, and no judgment. [25:06] - True Friendship Speaks Truth Why your closest friends should be the ones who love you enough to challenge you when needed—and how to be that kind of friend too. [29:41] - Feeling Stuck and Not Forgotten Cecilia shares a powerful testimony of God’s faithfulness during a season of infertility and loneliness while living in Japan. Want help building intentional relationships while strengthening your faith? Work with Melissa 1-on-1 and discover what’s holding you back: melissabatt.com/breakthrough-coaching Connect with Melissa: Website: melissabatt.com Instagram: @melissabattofficial Book a Free Life Assessment: Breakthrough Blueprint Call Connect with Cecilia Curtis + The Friendship Tour: 🎧 Podcast: The Friendship Tour on Apple Podcasts 👥 Facebook Community: bit.ly@thefriendshiptourpodcast 📸 Instagram: @thefriendshiptourpodcast 📩 Email: ccurtis@thefriendshiptourpodcast.com Subscribe & Share: Know someone who’s been craving deeper connection? Send this episode their way. Let’s stop isolating and start living with intention and faith.…

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Finding Friends in a New Season: Intentional Tips for Building Real Community with Cecilia Curtis of The Friendship Tour 32:21

11 weeks ago32:21

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In this heartfelt episode of Priorities on Purpose , Melissa Batt sits down with The Friendship Tour podcast host Cecilia Curtis to talk all things friendship—especially how to build meaningful relationships when life feels busy, lonely, or disconnected. Whether you’re new to town, feeling isolated, or just wondering why friendships seem harder as an adult, this episode is packed with wisdom, real-life stories, and practical tips to help you create deeper connections. Melissa and Cecilia share their personal struggles as introverts, frequent movers, and busy women—while also exploring the power of vulnerability, the importance of showing up, and why asking for help might be the most courageous thing you can do. If you’re craving more authentic community but don’t know where to start, this conversation will show you why friendship has to be intentional—and why it’s worth it. Key Takeaways: [00:03] - Welcome & Why Friendship Matters Melissa opens up about the intentionality behind friendships and why she searched so long for the perfect guest to speak into this topic. [01:56] - Cecilia’s Story & The Heart Behind Her Podcast Cecilia shares her journey as a military wife, mom of three, and how her life of constant moves inspired The Friendship Tour . [04:08] - The Struggle to Show Up for Others Melissa shares a vulnerable moment that revealed a personal blind spot in how she supports local friends. [06:48] - The Power of Offering & Accepting Help Cecilia breaks down why being both a giver and receiver is essential for deepening relationships. [08:41] - Asking for What You Need Isn’t Weakness Melissa opens up about how fear of being let down kept her from asking for help—even from her best friend. [11:47] - Healing from Past Friendship Hurts Cecilia encourages listeners to deal with their relational baggage and pray for discernment in new connections. [15:26] - Why Community Is God’s Design Both women highlight the biblical importance of community and how it sustains us in our weakest moments. [21:11] - Easy Ways to Start a Conversation Cecilia shares practical, low-pressure tips to break the ice and make the first move in building friendships. [23:06] - Don’t Take It Personally Why it’s important not to internalize someone’s lack of response—and how you can keep putting yourself out there. [25:10] - Say Yes & Get Involved Melissa and Cecilia talk about how showing up, volunteering, and accepting invitations create opportunities for connection. 🌟 Ready to make new connections and get your life back in order? Start by identifying what matters most. Download the free Take Your Time Back guide: melissabatt.com/take-your-time-back-guide Want to go deeper? Explore 1-on-1 coaching with Melissa and learn how to build an intentional life grounded in faith: melissabatt.com/breakthrough-coaching Connect with Melissa: Website: melissabatt.com Instagram: @melissabattofficial Book a Free Life Assessment: Breakthrough Blueprint Call Connect with Cecilia Curtis + The Friendship Tour: 🎧 Podcast: The Friendship Tour on Apple Podcasts 👥 Facebook Community: bit.ly@thefriendshiptourpodcast 📸 Instagram: @thefriendshiptourpodcast 📩 Email: ccurtis@thefriendshiptourpodcast.com Subscribe & Share: If this episode blessed you, subscribe and share it with a friend who needs encouragement to build a meaningful community. Let’s stop surviving and start living with purpose.…

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Stop Waiting for Someday: How to Get Out of Your Comfort Zone and Grow with Jesus 20:03

13 weeks ago20:03

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In this episode of Priorities on Purpose , Melissa Batt opens up about a surprising insecurity that surfaced while on vacation—and how God used it to reveal an area of brokenness He was inviting her to heal. From feeling embarrassed about being a tourist to wrestling with the fear of trying something new, Melissa shares real-life moments, biblical encouragement, and practical steps to overcome perfectionism, insecurity, and fear of failure. If you’ve ever stayed stuck because you didn’t want to be "bad" at something—or if you’ve been waiting for the perfect moment to start living the life God has called you to—this conversation is the wake-up call you need. Stop putting it off for "someday." Start building your faith, your courage, and your trust in God today. 📝 Key Takeaways: [00:01] – Why This Episode Sounds Different Melissa records live from vacation without her usual podcast setup—and explains what triggered today’s topic. [00:55] – When Vacation Triggers Hidden Insecurities Melissa reflects on feeling uncomfortable being a tourist and how it revealed deeper perfectionism and fear of looking silly. [03:00] – The Pressure to Be Good at Everything Melissa shares how adulthood often steals the childlike joy of simply trying something new without expectation. [06:17] – Recognizing Feelings of Inferiority Melissa explains how comparison and insecurity sneak in and what God says about our worth and identity. [08:17] – Using Triggers as Neon Signs for Healing Instead of avoiding uncomfortable feelings, Melissa challenges listeners to use them as opportunities to talk with God about them and explore further. [11:29] – The Freedom of Childlike Faith Melissa encourages listeners to stop measuring success by worldly standards and instead embrace the beauty of humility and growth. [14:17] – Are You Spectating or Participating in Life? Melissa shares a powerful metaphor about getting in the game—and how spiritual growth requires stepping out in faith. [17:02] – Why "Someday" Will Keep You Stuck Melissa reminds listeners that putting off obedience leads to missed opportunities and unfulfilled callings. [18:59] – Final Encouragement Melissa closes with a call to stop waiting for perfection and start trusting God to meet you as you move. 🎁 Free Resource Mentioned: Operation Reset: Free 5-Day Workshop Feeling overwhelmed or stuck? Operation Reset will help you realign your priorities, reclaim your time, and start living with intention and faith. 👉 melissabatt.com/operation-reset ✨ Want to work with Melissa 1-on-1? Ready to build your faith, step out in courage, and live the life God is calling you to? Melissa is accepting new Breakthrough Coaching clients. Book your free 30-minute Life Assessment today: 👉 melissabatt.com/breakthrough-coaching Connect with Melissa: Website: melissabatt.com Instagram: @melissabattofficial Free 30-Minute Call: bit.ly/3RbfwJf…

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Planning to Heal: Why Grief Needs a Place on Your Calendar with Heather O’Brien 1:00:28

13 weeks ago1:00:28

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In this episode of Priorities on Purpose , Melissa Batt sits down with prophetic healing coach and author Heather O’Brien for a deeply insightful conversation about why grief isn't just something we experience—it's something we should plan for . Heather, host of the Heal With God podcast, shares how intentional grieving with God leads to breakthrough healing. Together, they discuss the dangers of avoiding pain, the spiritual roots of physical symptoms, and how to finally stop numbing and start living. If you're stuck in survival mode, busying yourself to avoid the hard stuff, or constantly triggered without knowing why—this episode will challenge and encourage you to take action, sit with God, and experience real comfort and transformation. Whether you're grieving a loss, feeling triggered in your daily life, or wondering why healing hasn’t come yet—this conversation offers truth, tools, and hope for the journey. 📝 Key Takeaways: [00:00] – Meet Heather O’Brien Melissa introduces Heather, a healing coach and prophetic minister, and shares how their Holy Spirit-aligned missions connected. [04:00] – The Power of Grieving on Purpose Heather explains the concept of “planning to grieve” and why busyness or emotional overwhelm can block the healing process. [10:00] – Comparing Grief Seasons Melissa reflects on how grieving her stepdad versus her grandmother was drastically different due to boundaries and spiritual growth. [19:00] – Understanding Triggers as Opportunities Heather explains how physical symptoms and emotional triggers are signs that healing is needed—and how to respond instead of react. [30:00] – Planning Your Grief Practically Heather shares actionable steps like short prayers and journaling to bring your pain to God intentionally, even if it's just 10 minutes a day. [38:00] – Disappointment and Avoidance in Our Relationship with God Melissa opens up about subconsciously avoiding God when disappointed and how journaling revealed the root. [53:00] – When Obedience Leads to Healing Melissa shares a powerful testimony about how unforgiveness led to joint pain—and how obeying God brought emotional and physical freedom. [57:00] – Final Encouragement + Free Gift Heather reminds listeners that grief isn’t something to fear—it’s a pathway to comfort and healing. She also shares a free 7-day challenge to help you hear God’s voice. 🎁 Free Resource Mentioned: 7-Day Mental Makeover Challenge Start healing with simple daily spiritual disciplines and begin hearing God’s voice clearly. 👉 https://heatherobrien.net/mentalmakeoverchallenge Connect with Heather O’Brien: Website: heatherobrien.net Podcast: Heal With God (Available on all platforms) 🌟 Ready to go from stuck to surrendered? Join Operation Reset: If you’re feeling overwhelmed and don’t even know how to take the first step, Operation Reset is for you. This free 5-day workshop will help you reclaim your time, set aligned priorities, and reset your life with God at the center. 👉 melissabatt.com/operation-reset ✨ Want to work with Melissa 1-on-1? Learn more about Breakthrough Coaching and book your free 30-minute Life Assessment here: 👉 melissabatt.com/breakthrough-coaching Connect with Melissa: Website: melissabatt.com Instagram: @melissabattofficial Book Free 30-Minute Call: bit.ly/3RbfwJf…

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From Broken to Bold: How to Share Your Testimony & Step Into Your Calling {Part 3 with Christy} 31:41

14 weeks ago31:41