The Magic and Maintenance of Sex

Real Life Ministry

Join Pastor Ryan and his wife, Leslie, on the Real Life Ministry podcast for a lively, faith-filled exploration of keeping your marriage both spicy and sacred! In “Keeping It Spicy and Sacred in Marriage,” this dynamic husband-and-wife duo unpacks the God-designed gift of intimacy with biblical wisdom and relatable stories. Rooted in Song of Songs, 1 Corinthians 7, and Proverbs, they introduce the “Five Ps” of sex in marriage—Procreation, Peace, Protection, Pleasure, and Partnership—highlighting how it reduces stress, strengthens fidelity, sparks joy, and deepens connection, while building a godly legacy! Scriptures like Song of Songs 4:10 and 1 Corinthians 7:5 anchor their insights in God’s Word.
Ryan and Leslie address real intimacy challenges, like kids, health issues, stress, and sex drive differences, with practical solutions such as medical help or counseling (Proverbs 4:20-22). They share actionable tips to keep intimacy thriving—open communication, scheduling “Magic” and “maintenance” moments, and embracing adventure (Song of Songs 7:11-12). Expect some laughs, PG-13 anecdotes (like their trailhead escapade!), and firm, non-negotiable values like purity and respect. This episode is perfect for couples eager to honor God in their marriage, to spice it up while keeping it sacred! For more podcasts, visit us online at RealLifeMinistry.us.
Recommended Resources
Books:
- Sheet Music by Kevin Leman
- Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas
- The Meaning of Marriage by Timothy and Kathy Keller
- Love and Respect by Emerson Eggerichs
- Intimate Issues by Linda Dillow and Lorraine Pintus

- Event: FamilyLife’s Weekend to Remember Marriage Conference (FamilyLife.com)
- Podcasts:
- FamilyLife Today by FamilyLife
- Focus on the Family with Jim Daly
- Java with Juli by Authentic Intimacy