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VICTIMS WILL NOT STAY SOBER! Here is why...

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One of the biggest things that keeps recovering addicts and alcoholics stuck in the cycle of relapse and self-destruction is victim mentality. It’s that mindset of "Life is out to get me," "No one understands what I’ve been through," or "I can’t succeed because of my past." In this episode, we’re digging deep into: What victim mentality looks like in recovery – the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways it creeps in.

Why this mindset is dangerous – how it leads to resentment, isolation, and relapse. How to shift from self-pity to accountability – practical steps to take control of your sobriety. Why service work and gratitude are the ultimate antidotes to victim thinking. We also discuss how family members, sponsors, and recovery communities can help someone recognize when they’re stuck in a victim mindset—without enabling their excuses.

At the end of the day, your recovery is YOUR responsibility. No one is coming to save you, but the good news is—you don’t need saving. You just need to take action. If you’re ready to move from blaming to thriving, this episode is for you!

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One of the biggest things that keeps recovering addicts and alcoholics stuck in the cycle of relapse and self-destruction is victim mentality. It’s that mindset of "Life is out to get me," "No one understands what I’ve been through," or "I can’t succeed because of my past." In this episode, we’re digging deep into: What victim mentality looks like in recovery – the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways it creeps in.

Why this mindset is dangerous – how it leads to resentment, isolation, and relapse. How to shift from self-pity to accountability – practical steps to take control of your sobriety. Why service work and gratitude are the ultimate antidotes to victim thinking. We also discuss how family members, sponsors, and recovery communities can help someone recognize when they’re stuck in a victim mindset—without enabling their excuses.

At the end of the day, your recovery is YOUR responsibility. No one is coming to save you, but the good news is—you don’t need saving. You just need to take action. If you’re ready to move from blaming to thriving, this episode is for you!

  continue reading

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