Ep. 063 - Kim Otteby - Self-Worth Isn’t Earned, Here’s Why You Already Have It

Redefining Wisdom

Kim Otteby is a leadership trainer, speaker, and a coach, she is also the Founder and Managing Director of Umoyo Natural Health, Zambia’s leading natural health company.
Self-worth is NOT something you earn; it’s something you already have. In this powerful conversation, Kim Otteby shatters the biggest misconception about self-worth and reveals how to break free from the belief of ‘not being enough. ’
Kim shares her personal journey, uncovering the hidden blocks to self-acceptance and personal growth. She explains how to move from fear-driven achievement to purpose-driven living and why curiosity and compassion are the keys to self-worth.
If you’ve ever struggled with feeling not enough, this episode will help you question limiting beliefs, embrace your worth, and create lasting change.
In this episode, you will learn:

• How childhood beliefs shape your self-worth
• Why external validation will never be enough
• How to retrain your brain and create new neural pathways
• Difference between confidence and true self-worth
• Dr. David Hawkins's consciousness model and its impact
• Plus much more

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Chapters

1. Intro (00:00:00)

2. The Biggest Myth About Self-Worth (Debunked!) (00:01:45)

3. Levels of Consciousness: From Possessions to True Being (00:05:12)

4. How to Recognize & Reframe Limiting Beliefs (00:10:15)

5. The Gap Between Knowing vs. Truly Embodying Self-Worth (00:20:07)

6. The Trap of External Validation & How to Break Free (00:24:46)

7. Embracing ALL Parts of Yourself (Even the Messy Ones) (00:29:10)

8. Why Changing Your Identity Feels Uncomfortable (and How to Push Through) (00:32:37)

9. Confidence vs. Self-Worth: The Key Difference (00:36:42)

10. Is Self-Worth a Lifelong Journey or a Mindset Shift? (00:40:15)

11. Advice for High Achievers: Stop Tying Your Worth to Success (00:44:19)

12. What Society Gets Wrong About Success & Self-Worth (00:47:57)

13. Final Takeaways: A Powerful Reflection on Self-Worth (00:54:23)

14. Where to Connect with Kim & Learn More (00:58:05)