SPECIAL EDITION: Breaking Money Taboos with Pattie Ehsaei

Redesigning Life with Sabrina Soto

Money—the last standing taboo in our society and the number one cause of divorce—takes center stage in this candid conversation between Sabrina Soto and Pattie Ehsaei, the "Duchess of Decorum" on TikTok. Raw, unedited, and refreshingly honest, this discussion dives deep into why financial independence remains non-negotiable for creating balanced power dynamics in relationships.
The conversation tackles Pattie's viral advice to "never date a broke dude"—clarifying that it's less about someone's bank balance and more about matching "hustle for hustle." Financial compatibility means aligning ambition, responsibility, and mindset rather than dollar amounts. They discuss practical strategies for maintaining financial independence, tactical advice for improving credit scores, and five crucial questions everyone should ask before marriage.
Ready to break the money taboo in your own life? Listen now and join the conversation about how financial transparency can transform both your relationship with money and your relationships with others.

To watch the segment with Pattie Ehsaei and Sabrina, The Sabrina Soto Show:

https://www.sabrinasoto.com/the-sabrina-soto-show/

Connect with Sabrina on Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/sabrina_soto

Connect with Pattie Ehsaei here:

https://www.pattieehsaei.com/

Pattie Ehsaei on Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/duchessofdecorum

Chapters

1. Welcome to Unedited Conversation (00:00:00)

2. Meeting Patti Asai, Duchess of Decorum (00:00:43)

3. Financial Independence & Power Dynamics (00:02:12)

4. Never Date a Broke Dude (00:06:10)

5. Five Essential Financial Questions (00:13:21)

6. Breaking Money Taboos Together (00:19:32)