Go offline with the Player FM app!
Why You Get Defensive When You Hear “You’ve Hurt My Feelings”
Manage episode 493190534 series 2093845

Why do we immediately put up walls when someone says ‘You’ve hurt my feelings’?
In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, you’ll discover the psychological reason behind this universal response and learn a simple but powerful reframe that can transform these vulnerable moments into opportunities for deeper intimacy. This insight completely changed how Shannon and I handle hurt feelings—and it will change your marriage too.
314 episodes
Manage episode 493190534 series 2093845

Why do we immediately put up walls when someone says ‘You’ve hurt my feelings’?
In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, you’ll discover the psychological reason behind this universal response and learn a simple but powerful reframe that can transform these vulnerable moments into opportunities for deeper intimacy. This insight completely changed how Shannon and I handle hurt feelings—and it will change your marriage too.
314 episodes
All episodes
×Welcome to Player FM!
Player FM is scanning the web for high-quality podcasts for you to enjoy right now. It's the best podcast app and works on Android, iPhone, and the web. Signup to sync subscriptions across devices.