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How Are You? | The No Bullsh*t Guide to a Happier Life

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Welcome to episode 103. In this episode, I’m exploring why for neurodivergent people - especially those who are autistic - the simple question “How are you?” can feel overwhelmingly complicated. We’ll look at what actually goes on in our brains during moments like this, and why even well-meaning questions can lead to overwhelm or shutdown. I also talk about ways I prefer to be checked in with—and why sharing our communication preferences can help us connect more honestly and kindly.

Whether this is your experience or you're just curious, I hope this episode gives you helpful insight into more supportive ways to communicate. Let’s dive in.

In this episode:

  • The complexity of the question "How are you?"– Why for many autistic people, this common question can cause anxiety or shutdown (especially during burnout).
  • The fear of rejection or abandonment – how avoiding social questions can trigger deep fears of being judged, pitied or abandoned.
  • Alternative ways to show care – suggestions for more accessible check-in questions, and the importance of asking what’s best.

The Happier Life Hub is now OPEN!! Access The Hub for just £20 per month!

https://happier-life.co.uk/hub

Season 5 of this podcast is sponsored by Stephanie Ward of The Spicy Brain Collective. We thank Stephanie hugely for her ongoing support.

https://www.thespicybraincollective.com

https://www.instagram.com/thespicybraincollective

https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephanie-ward-sbc

Remember to hit SUBSCRIBE or FOLLOW so you don't miss any new episodes; subscribe to my mailing list and connect with me over on Instagram @happierlifecoach

If you would like to know more about how coaching works or to work with me 1-2-1, please visit https://happier-life.co.uk/

For more tips and to be part of the community, sign up to The No Bullshit Guide To A Happier Life Facebook Group now!

Have you got a copy of the The No Bullsh*t Guide to a Happier Life book? Follow this link to purchase yours now!

  continue reading

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Welcome to episode 103. In this episode, I’m exploring why for neurodivergent people - especially those who are autistic - the simple question “How are you?” can feel overwhelmingly complicated. We’ll look at what actually goes on in our brains during moments like this, and why even well-meaning questions can lead to overwhelm or shutdown. I also talk about ways I prefer to be checked in with—and why sharing our communication preferences can help us connect more honestly and kindly.

Whether this is your experience or you're just curious, I hope this episode gives you helpful insight into more supportive ways to communicate. Let’s dive in.

In this episode:

  • The complexity of the question "How are you?"– Why for many autistic people, this common question can cause anxiety or shutdown (especially during burnout).
  • The fear of rejection or abandonment – how avoiding social questions can trigger deep fears of being judged, pitied or abandoned.
  • Alternative ways to show care – suggestions for more accessible check-in questions, and the importance of asking what’s best.

The Happier Life Hub is now OPEN!! Access The Hub for just £20 per month!

https://happier-life.co.uk/hub

Season 5 of this podcast is sponsored by Stephanie Ward of The Spicy Brain Collective. We thank Stephanie hugely for her ongoing support.

https://www.thespicybraincollective.com

https://www.instagram.com/thespicybraincollective

https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephanie-ward-sbc

Remember to hit SUBSCRIBE or FOLLOW so you don't miss any new episodes; subscribe to my mailing list and connect with me over on Instagram @happierlifecoach

If you would like to know more about how coaching works or to work with me 1-2-1, please visit https://happier-life.co.uk/

For more tips and to be part of the community, sign up to The No Bullshit Guide To A Happier Life Facebook Group now!

Have you got a copy of the The No Bullsh*t Guide to a Happier Life book? Follow this link to purchase yours now!

  continue reading

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