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How Are You? | The No Bullsh*t Guide to a Happier Life
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Welcome to episode 103. In this episode, I’m exploring why for neurodivergent people - especially those who are autistic - the simple question “How are you?” can feel overwhelmingly complicated. We’ll look at what actually goes on in our brains during moments like this, and why even well-meaning questions can lead to overwhelm or shutdown. I also talk about ways I prefer to be checked in with—and why sharing our communication preferences can help us connect more honestly and kindly.
Whether this is your experience or you're just curious, I hope this episode gives you helpful insight into more supportive ways to communicate. Let’s dive in.
In this episode:
- The complexity of the question "How are you?"– Why for many autistic people, this common question can cause anxiety or shutdown (especially during burnout).
- The fear of rejection or abandonment – how avoiding social questions can trigger deep fears of being judged, pitied or abandoned.
- Alternative ways to show care – suggestions for more accessible check-in questions, and the importance of asking what’s best.
The Happier Life Hub is now OPEN!! Access The Hub for just £20 per month!
https://happier-life.co.uk/hub
Season 5 of this podcast is sponsored by Stephanie Ward of The Spicy Brain Collective. We thank Stephanie hugely for her ongoing support.
https://www.thespicybraincollective.com
https://www.instagram.com/thespicybraincollective
https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephanie-ward-sbc
Remember to hit SUBSCRIBE or FOLLOW so you don't miss any new episodes; subscribe to my mailing list and connect with me over on Instagram @happierlifecoach
If you would like to know more about how coaching works or to work with me 1-2-1, please visit https://happier-life.co.uk/
For more tips and to be part of the community, sign up to The No Bullshit Guide To A Happier Life Facebook Group now!
Have you got a copy of the The No Bullsh*t Guide to a Happier Life book? Follow this link to purchase yours now!
104 episodes
Manage episode 491818015 series 2911046
Welcome to episode 103. In this episode, I’m exploring why for neurodivergent people - especially those who are autistic - the simple question “How are you?” can feel overwhelmingly complicated. We’ll look at what actually goes on in our brains during moments like this, and why even well-meaning questions can lead to overwhelm or shutdown. I also talk about ways I prefer to be checked in with—and why sharing our communication preferences can help us connect more honestly and kindly.
Whether this is your experience or you're just curious, I hope this episode gives you helpful insight into more supportive ways to communicate. Let’s dive in.
In this episode:
- The complexity of the question "How are you?"– Why for many autistic people, this common question can cause anxiety or shutdown (especially during burnout).
- The fear of rejection or abandonment – how avoiding social questions can trigger deep fears of being judged, pitied or abandoned.
- Alternative ways to show care – suggestions for more accessible check-in questions, and the importance of asking what’s best.
The Happier Life Hub is now OPEN!! Access The Hub for just £20 per month!
https://happier-life.co.uk/hub
Season 5 of this podcast is sponsored by Stephanie Ward of The Spicy Brain Collective. We thank Stephanie hugely for her ongoing support.
https://www.thespicybraincollective.com
https://www.instagram.com/thespicybraincollective
https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephanie-ward-sbc
Remember to hit SUBSCRIBE or FOLLOW so you don't miss any new episodes; subscribe to my mailing list and connect with me over on Instagram @happierlifecoach
If you would like to know more about how coaching works or to work with me 1-2-1, please visit https://happier-life.co.uk/
For more tips and to be part of the community, sign up to The No Bullshit Guide To A Happier Life Facebook Group now!
Have you got a copy of the The No Bullsh*t Guide to a Happier Life book? Follow this link to purchase yours now!
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