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66: Adopting a Puppy to "Complete" My Family: Why Goal-Setting from Lack Doesn’t Work

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In this episode, I’m sharing the real story behind adopting—and ultimately rehoming—a puppy I thought would "complete my family" as a single mom.

It’s a story I almost didn’t share. But what started as a deeply personal decision became a mirror for the kind of choices so many of us make in business.

Because this wasn’t just about a puppy.

It was about trying to soothe a feeling I hadn’t fully acknowledged—and how that showed up in a major life decision.

Here’s what I’m unpacking in this episode:

  • Why even the most “well-thought-out” decisions can still come from a place of lack
  • How I’ve seen brilliant women (myself included) set goals not because we want them—but because we think they’ll finally make us feel safe, successful, or enough
  • What happens when you bring your unhealed self into a milestone and still feel unsatisfied
  • The real cost of setting goals to escape how we feel about ourselves today

This episode is an invitation to get radically honest with yourself:

👉 Are you building from sufficiency—or trying to earn your way into feeling whole?

Work with me + stay connected


  continue reading

74 episodes

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Content provided by Mariela De La Mora | Leadership and Business Coach for Women of Color, Mariela De La Mora | Leadership, and Business Coach for Women of Color. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Mariela De La Mora | Leadership and Business Coach for Women of Color, Mariela De La Mora | Leadership, and Business Coach for Women of Color or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://ppacc.player.fm/legal.

In this episode, I’m sharing the real story behind adopting—and ultimately rehoming—a puppy I thought would "complete my family" as a single mom.

It’s a story I almost didn’t share. But what started as a deeply personal decision became a mirror for the kind of choices so many of us make in business.

Because this wasn’t just about a puppy.

It was about trying to soothe a feeling I hadn’t fully acknowledged—and how that showed up in a major life decision.

Here’s what I’m unpacking in this episode:

  • Why even the most “well-thought-out” decisions can still come from a place of lack
  • How I’ve seen brilliant women (myself included) set goals not because we want them—but because we think they’ll finally make us feel safe, successful, or enough
  • What happens when you bring your unhealed self into a milestone and still feel unsatisfied
  • The real cost of setting goals to escape how we feel about ourselves today

This episode is an invitation to get radically honest with yourself:

👉 Are you building from sufficiency—or trying to earn your way into feeling whole?

Work with me + stay connected


  continue reading

74 episodes

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