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157. The Assertiveness Trap: Competence Over Noise

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Episode Title: Description:

In this episode, Mark Tilsher dives deep into the concept of assertiveness in leadership. Often mistaken for competence, assertiveness can either make or break your influence in a team setting. Mark shares personal anecdotes from his military career, backed by research and practical tips on how to harness the power of assertiveness to build relational capital and lead effectively.

Key Takeaways:
  • Understanding the difference between assertiveness and competence.
  • How to manage conflict constructively.
  • Building relational capital through effective communication.
  • Real-world examples and strategies for military and civilian leaders.

Timestamps:
  • 00:00 – Introduction
  • 02:15 – The misconception of assertiveness as competence
  • 07:30 – Personal story: Feeling left out and frustrated in military meetings
  • 12:45 – Research insights on assertiveness and relational capital
  • 18:20 – Practical tips for managing conflict and building influence
  • 24:10 – Real-world examples from military and civilian settings
  • 30:00 – Conclusion and key takeaways

Keywords:

Assertiveness, Leadership, Conflict Resolution, Relational Capital, Military Leadership, Influence, Communication, Team Dynamics, Mark Tilsher, Military Sherpa

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Manage episode 427910165 series 3558006
Content provided by Mark Tilsher. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Mark Tilsher or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://ppacc.player.fm/legal.
Episode Title: Description:

In this episode, Mark Tilsher dives deep into the concept of assertiveness in leadership. Often mistaken for competence, assertiveness can either make or break your influence in a team setting. Mark shares personal anecdotes from his military career, backed by research and practical tips on how to harness the power of assertiveness to build relational capital and lead effectively.

Key Takeaways:
  • Understanding the difference between assertiveness and competence.
  • How to manage conflict constructively.
  • Building relational capital through effective communication.
  • Real-world examples and strategies for military and civilian leaders.

Timestamps:
  • 00:00 – Introduction
  • 02:15 – The misconception of assertiveness as competence
  • 07:30 – Personal story: Feeling left out and frustrated in military meetings
  • 12:45 – Research insights on assertiveness and relational capital
  • 18:20 – Practical tips for managing conflict and building influence
  • 24:10 – Real-world examples from military and civilian settings
  • 30:00 – Conclusion and key takeaways

Keywords:

Assertiveness, Leadership, Conflict Resolution, Relational Capital, Military Leadership, Influence, Communication, Team Dynamics, Mark Tilsher, Military Sherpa

  continue reading

113 episodes

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