Ep. 219 — Raising a Christ-First Girl

Raising Godly Girls

What does it mean for your daughter to live a Christ-first life in a world that constantly tells her to put herself first? In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael and Natalie unpack the Biblical and cultural tension of raising a girl who understands that life isn’t all about her—and that’s a good thing.

Through honest reflection, cultural insight, and personal stories, this episode challenges the prevailing narrative of self-promotion, entitlement, and individualism. Instead, listeners are guided toward a vision of identity rooted in humility, self-sacrifice, and joyful obedience to Christ. Hear how John the Baptist’s bold declaration, “He must increase, but I must decrease” (John 3:30), becomes a powerful framework for girls to understand true success—not by chasing fame or self-defined dreams, but by aligning their hearts with God’s Kingdom purposes.

You’ll also hear a Raising Godly Girls Minute from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director, Patti Garibay, on selfish ambition and how parents can lovingly guide their daughters from a self-focused drive to a Spirit-led purpose. Rachael and Natalie reflect on the hard truths and beautiful blessings that come when girls learn to let go of personal expectations and trust God’s greater plan—even when it means giving up something they love.

This episode offers practical encouragement on how to teach your girl to live a Christ-first life, including opportunities to give her time and resources in meaningful service. You'll be inspired by stories of real girls in American Heritage Girls Troops who are choosing to reflect Christ through service—from knitting hats for cancer patients to volunteering at Operation Christmas Child centers. These acts of faith in motion are beautiful snapshots of a generation learning to live less for themselves and more for Jesus.

Whether your daughter is learning the meaning of humility for the first time or wrestling with unanswered prayers and unmet expectations, this episode offers grace-filled truth to help her walk the road of Christ-first identity. Subscribe and listen as we equip you to have heart-shaping conversations that point your daughter to the One who defines her worth.

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