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386 - Noncustodial Parenting & Black Motherhood with Erica M. Freeman and Dem Black Mamas Podcast

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Dear Mama,

What if I told you Black mamas aren’t superheroes, that the cape is choking us, and our backs are brittle? What if I told you motherhood ain’t killing us, though, but the narratives we buy into hook, line, and sinker are? What if you had the option not to be the primary custodial parent? Would you decline out of obligation to the belief that a good Black mama would never choose to leave their children in the care of others, even the other parent? How does a Black mother respond when what’s best for her or her destiny clashes with cultural norms?

In this Mother’s Day episode, I shared my journey with Dem Black Mamas Podcast about the complexities and challenges of non-custodial parenting and Black motherhood. When Erica and her husband decided to divorce, they also agreed to shared custody. Each parent would have primary custody for 3 years of their son Maxwell who was diagnosed with spastic quadriplegic cerebral palsy 10 years ago.

We dive into:

  • Confronting societal norms and cultural stigmas
  • Navigating health and care decisions for children with special needs as a noncustodial parent
  • Historical trauma and Black motherhood
  • Renegotiating Black motherhood

Connect with Dem Black Mamas: YouTube | Email List | Patreon | Blusky

🗣️Engage: This is a conversation. Speak back to us! Share your thoughts about the episode using the hashtag #DemBlackMamas, DM us or email us at [email protected].

Join our Weekly Grief Support Groups at sistersinloss.com/psi

Become a Sisters in Loss Birth Bereavement, and Postpartum Doula Here Living Water Doula Services Book Recommendations and Links Below

You can shop my Amazon Store for the Book Recommendations

You can follow Sisters in Loss on Social

Join our Black Moms in Loss Online Weekly Grief Support Group

Join the Sisters in Loss Online Community

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You can follow Erica on Social

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Erica’s Instagram

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Content provided by Erica M. Freeman. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Erica M. Freeman or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://ppacc.player.fm/legal.

Dear Mama,

What if I told you Black mamas aren’t superheroes, that the cape is choking us, and our backs are brittle? What if I told you motherhood ain’t killing us, though, but the narratives we buy into hook, line, and sinker are? What if you had the option not to be the primary custodial parent? Would you decline out of obligation to the belief that a good Black mama would never choose to leave their children in the care of others, even the other parent? How does a Black mother respond when what’s best for her or her destiny clashes with cultural norms?

In this Mother’s Day episode, I shared my journey with Dem Black Mamas Podcast about the complexities and challenges of non-custodial parenting and Black motherhood. When Erica and her husband decided to divorce, they also agreed to shared custody. Each parent would have primary custody for 3 years of their son Maxwell who was diagnosed with spastic quadriplegic cerebral palsy 10 years ago.

We dive into:

  • Confronting societal norms and cultural stigmas
  • Navigating health and care decisions for children with special needs as a noncustodial parent
  • Historical trauma and Black motherhood
  • Renegotiating Black motherhood

Connect with Dem Black Mamas: YouTube | Email List | Patreon | Blusky

🗣️Engage: This is a conversation. Speak back to us! Share your thoughts about the episode using the hashtag #DemBlackMamas, DM us or email us at [email protected].

Join our Weekly Grief Support Groups at sistersinloss.com/psi

Become a Sisters in Loss Birth Bereavement, and Postpartum Doula Here Living Water Doula Services Book Recommendations and Links Below

You can shop my Amazon Store for the Book Recommendations

You can follow Sisters in Loss on Social

Join our Black Moms in Loss Online Weekly Grief Support Group

Join the Sisters in Loss Online Community

Sisters in Loss TV Youtube Channel

Sisters in Loss Instagram

Sisters in Loss Facebook

Sisters in Loss Twitter

You can follow Erica on Social

Erica’s Website

Erica’s Instagram

Erica’s Facebook

Erica’s Twitter

  continue reading

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