Ep.#41 From Silence to Sovereignty: How Speaking Your Truth Sets You Free

Alive & Awake with Alicia

In this powerful episode, host Alicia Kay dives deep into the heart of why so many of us struggle to speak our truth and use our authentic voice, especially those of us who were taught to hide our feelings or conform to keep the peace. Drawing on her own personal journey and decades of experience in trauma work, Alicia unpacks the lingering fears and nervous system responses that keep us silent and reveals how our upbringing and collective conditioning play a role in making self-expression feel unsafe.

Alicia shares candid moments from her early career and her own childhood, connecting the dots between past wounds and the barriers we face today in relationships, work, and self-worth. You'll discover the pitfalls of wishy-washy boundaries, the difference between extrinsic and intrinsic guilt, and why honest, heart-led communication is the most self-honoring choice we can make.

Tune in and get ready to awaken your sacred voice, set boundaries that serve you, and step fully into your power as the divine being you are meant to be.

Key Takeaways:

• Your fear of speaking up often comes from old wounds and conditioning, not from who you truly are.
• Setting and holding boundaries is essential for yourself and healthy relationships.
• Even when it’s uncomfortable, speaking your truth invites the right people into your life and weeds out dead-end relationships.
• The right communication tools can help you share your needs clearly and compassionately, leading to deeper, more authentic connections.

Timestamps:

00:00 "Embrace Radical Honesty"

03:27 Fear of Being Heard

08:48 Surviving Chaos Through Conformity

10:00 "Ego vs. Adversarial Voice"

15:30 Authenticity and Boundaries in Relationships

19:56 "Authenticity in Relationships"

22:45 "Winning the War Within Launch"

27:45 "Validating Emotions for Authentic Relationships"

28:49 Navigating High-Conflict Relationships

32:23 Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic Guilt

35:55 Clarify Desires Before Speaking

41:37 Setting Boundaries Through Clear Communication

43:30 "Empowerment Course Invitation"

Resources Mentioned:

• Winning the War Within: Alicia’s upcoming online course, with a whole module dedicated to reclaiming your voice and standing in your power. (Get on the waitlist for special pre-launch access!)
• Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg — The communication formula Alicia shares is based on this approach.

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Trailer Music Credit

Alis Reflective Soul, song “Howl” https://open.spotify.com/track/6FkSVtVl1FZwPRmTKAXLjp?si=401711feb98644d9