Ask the Grief Curator: Is It Too Late to Reach Out?

Don't Tell Me To Get Over It

In today’s Q&A episode, I answer a question from a listener who wasn't able to attend a funeral and wonders if it’s too late to reach out to a grieving friend.

Many of us worry about saying the wrong thing or reopening wounds, but does grief have an expiration date when it comes to offering support?

I explore the hesitation that often holds us back, the impact of belated but sincere gestures, and how to connect in a way that feels meaningful rather than awkward.

Whether you've been in this situation yourself or worry about reaching out to someone who is grieving, this episode offers insight, reassurance, and practical ways to show you care—no matter how much time has passed.

Tune in to hear:

💭 Why we sometimes hesitate to reach out after a loss.

🕰️ Does timing really matter when offering support?

📩 Simple, thoughtful ways to reconnect without feeling awkward.

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Music

Intro and Outro: Eulogy | Licensed and Used with Permission of Thrumm, a division of Junius Recording Company

Bibliography

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