86: Grief Is Like Moving Into A New Town And Not Knowing Anybody With Lynn Banis The Pursuit Of Freedom podcast

86: Grief is like moving into a new town and not knowing anybody with Lynn Banis

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In this episode, I chat with Dr. Lynne Banis, who has faced unimaginable loss—losing her mother, brother, and husband in a short span of time. She shares her personal experience with grief and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with it, from the deep psychological impact to the unexpected ways it can reshape who we are. We talk about the importance of community support, the different ways people cope, and why finding your tribe is essential in the healing process. Dr. Banis also opens up about the journey of moving forward, how grief can redefine our identity, and the surprising personal growth that can come from profound loss.

💡 Key Takeaways

Grief is a traumatic upset of the brain and emotions.
It's important to define grief in personal terms.
Life before grief can feel drastically different.
Each loss can evoke different types of grief.
Busy coping mechanisms can lead to burnout.
Finding a supportive community is crucial.
Avoiding hurtful phrases can help in conversations about grief.
Offering genuine support can make a difference.
Grief can be isolating; finding your tribe is essential.
Moving forward does not mean forgetting the lost loved one.

📖 Chapters

00:00 Understanding Grief: A Personal Journey

03:34 The Nature of Grief and Its Impact

06:38 Navigating Loss: Different Types of Grief

09:37 Coping Mechanisms: Busy vs. Reflective

12:36 Finding Support: The Importance of Community

15:39 What Not to Say: Common Missteps in Grief Conversations

18:37 How to Support Someone in Grief

21:27 Creating Healing Memories

24:41 Moving Forward with Grief

27:36 Finding Your Tribe: Building a Support Network

31:44 Navigating Grief: Finding Hope and Healing

35:12 Rewiring the Mind: Adjusting to Loss

39:17 Shifting Mindsets: From Grief to Growth

44:50 The Complexity of Moving On

51:08 Honoring the Past: Living with Loss

55:28 Empowerment in Grief: Finding Your Strength

01:00:40 00.New Outro_2025.mp4

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