8. Screw the Shortcut—Create Your Own Damn Roadmap

The Rebel's Way

Welcome back to The Rebel’s Way podcast—your no-BS guide to breaking the rules, trusting yourself, and creating a life that actually feels like yours. I’m your host, Starlyn, and today we’re throwing out the one-size-fits-all approach to life, goals, and growth—and replacing it with your unique roadmap.

Inspired by a road trip and my love for a good metaphor, we’re talking about what it really means to build a life (and hit your goals) your way. Because spoiler alert: someone else’s plan isn’t your path.

In this episode, we dive into:

Why following someone else’s roadmap will only lead to burnout and disappointment

The hidden danger of doing things just because “that’s how it’s done”

How to know if you’re abandoning your joy for someone else’s version of success

The mindset shift that makes goal-chasing sustainable and satisfying

Why trusting your own body, energy, and intuition is the ultimate rebellion

This episode is your reminder that you don’t have to suffer your way to success. You can slow down, take detours, enjoy the views, and still get exactly where you’re meant to go.

Challenge for You:

Look at one goal you’re working toward right now. Are you following someone else’s plan because you think you should? What would it look like to pursue that goal in a way that actually feels good to you? Make one tiny shift toward your own path today.

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