Losing Them Twice: The Realities of Dementia Caregiving

Black Women North of 50

What if caring for a loved one with dementia means grieving them while they’re still here?

In this raw and deeply personal episode of Black Women North of 50, host Wynn Helms sits down with dementia care expert Denese Taylor to unpack the invisible battles of caregiving—and how to find strength in the storm.

Denese Taylor, a seasoned memory care coordinator, pulls back the curtain on dementia’s rising tide in Black communities. From the gut-punch of early symptoms to the heartache of hearing “Who are you?” from a parent, she breaks down why education and safety-proofing homes are non-negotiable first steps.

For every Black woman balancing grief, guilt, and grace in the caregiving trenches, Denese offers a radical truth: Your strength isn’t measured by how much you sacrifice, but by how fiercely you protect your peace. Dementia may steal memories, but it can’t erase the legacy of care you’re building—one day, one breath, at a time.

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