Spicing things up(Oral sex)

Sexual inter-course

First things first Rest assured that, even if it’s your first dive, chances are you’ll be fine — everyone starts somewhere But we want to make sure you’re more than fine, because life’s too short for oral that’s just meh.

After all, if you’re gonna go down, you should do it right.

Here’s what you need to know about the giving and getting of oral sex, plus all of the fun and even practical stuff in between.

Let’s set the record straight

Before getting down to nitty, let’s talk about the gritty.

Yes, oral sex is “real” sex

Forget what you heard from Clinton or anyone else about what sex is and isn’t. Penis-in-vagina sex is not the be-all-end-all of sex. Oral sex can be just as pleasurable — if not more so — than penetrative sex.

Your anatomy is unique

Vulvas and penises come in all shapes and sizes, so try not to spend any time worrying about how yours compares to someone else’s.

Vulvas rarely look like a perfectly juicy peach, and penises aren’t usually eggplant emoji-big or smooth.

Everyone has a smell of some kind

Scrub all you want, but you’ll still have some odor down there. It’s called your natural odor, and it’s fine.

That said, freshening up before oral sex is just the nice thing to do.

To keep things fresh:

Take a shower or bath, or at least use soap and water to wash your genital area.

Use a wet paper towel or unscented wipes if you need to freshen up on the fly.

Avoid perfumes or deodorants down there because they aren’t genital-friendly or necessary.

And everyone has a taste

You know whose genital juice tastes like cookies and cream? No one’s! We all have a taste down there.

As long as you’re healthy and on top of your hygiene, you should taste fine.

If you’re still worried about funky spunk, tweaking what you eat may improve the taste of your juice.