Are You Doing It Wrong? The Truth About How Long Sex Should Last!

Sharing My Truth

Ever wondered if your bedroom sessions are too short—or maybe way too long? You’re not alone. In this episode, we break down the difference between how long sex actually lasts versus how long we wish it would. Hollywood and porn have set some seriously unrealistic expectations, making us think that anything under 30 minutes is a failure. But is that even what most people want? We’re talking real stats, personal experiences, and the truth about why sometimes, a quickie is all you need (and other times, you’re hoping for an all-nighter). Plus, we dive into a Grazia magazine article that spills the tea on what people really think about the ideal bedroom duration.

But let’s be honest—does anyone really have the time or energy for an hour-long session on a Tuesday night? We dive into the factors that impact sexual endurance, from stress and lifestyle to technique and connection. Is there a magic number for the perfect amount of time in bed, or does it all come down to what works for you and your partner? Tune in as we get real about expectations versus reality and why quality always beats quantity when it comes to great sex!

Also listen to our past episodes: The Wild Secrets We Keep From Our Partners and Spouses, Revealed by Buzzfeed Dry January? Let’s Talk Going ’Sex Sober’ Instead!

Vibr8tor.com: Use Promo MS15 for some self-care.

Got a story to share with us?

Leave us a voicemail by clicking here.

Email us: [email protected] or DM us on Instagram

Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod

Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod

Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter

Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com

Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us, check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.