Dropping the seeds for multi-tasking (evident) and ahead of ptsd (evident) and checked desire (still there) & knowledge (evident through conversation and thank goodness, I can hear OUR VOICES)
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What I originally said. The previous post is the afterthought, formally a reflection or STEP TWO. Dropped seeds for lots of things & indicating I can hold more than one thought. So far, male advocacy (ptsd/homeless/addiction), female advocacy (domestic violence/assaults/addiction), 2nd curriculum created by 2nd grade teachers, importance of that third party to find out where people are lying since their story changes & the behavior of delay,
NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION & the thinking, "well you didn't say no," but I had 100% lost the ability to speak and for years, I'm reliving all the examples of non-verbal communication that clearly say, "no." These are basics in consent now, but back then, going out was a predator's smorgasbord due to sexual comments, gawks, gropes & normalization of titillating and concupiscence conversation that made me avoid the entire scene. Only with trusted people (the focus more on men than women then, but I'd me equally if not more cautious of women these days) did I ever "go out" with and why the greatest gift we have as humans is to vouch for people. Let's drop the seed or +1 and my final house party I threw in Chicago.
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