Ep 52 - Weaponised Incompetence: They’re Not Helpless - They’re Playing You. Relationship Autopsy.

Soul Path Alchemy

Weaponized incompetence is the silent killer of modern relationships - and it’s not just a ‘man thing’ or a ‘woman thing.’ It’s when your partner acts helpless to dodge responsibility, leaving you to carry the load. In this Relationship Autopsy, we break down the psychodynamics of selective incompetence, how enabling keeps it alive and why this era of victimhood-as-virtue is coming to an end. You’ll learn the hidden motives behind this behaviour, how to spot it early and the exact steps to shut it down so you can grow, evolve and actually enjoy your relationship. Competence is sexy. Shared effort is magnetic. And playing helpless? That’s over.

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Music Credit - Majestic Sky Outro by Grand Project