Episode 59: Avoiding the top divorce mistakes
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Most people are new to divorce. It’s not something many of us have done before, and the whole thing can feel utterly overwhelming. The emotional and practical difficulties can lead to jumping in before we’re ready, making mistakes because we’re not thinking straight, and trying to get it all over with as quickly as possible. Whilst nobody wants to drag divorce out, one of the biggest mistakes Chloe Oudiz, a divorce and separation coach, sees, is rushing into decisions without getting the right advice or thinking things through.
Matt and Liza welcome back Chloe for this episode on the top divorce mistakes and how to avoid them. A must-listen for those at the start of the process, or those working out their next steps.
01:45 The dangers of rushing into things
03:35 The first step in divorce
04:40 How do you know you’re ready to get divorced?
05:56 Misconceptions around divorce and finance
09:00 Detaching emotions from practicalities
16:42 Emotional resilience and wellbeing through divorce
19:46 Mistakes made in the legal process
25:45 The importance of being detailed and precise
29:35 Considering prenuptial agreements for second marriages
32.20 Financial disclosure and DIY divorce
34:19 Making a cost-value analysis
37:37 Top tips for avoiding common mistakes in divorce
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