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You Are Your Best Bet: From Playing It Safe to All-In at Work

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In this episode 19 of UnCeiling You, Natalie Luke, PhD, sits down with Ellen Leikind—author of Poker Woman and creator of the BOLD negotiation system—to unpack the hidden costs of “playing it safe” at work. From poker tables to boardrooms, Ellen shares how understanding power dynamics, owning your voice, and knowing when to fold (or go all in) are essential to advancing your career. If you’ve ever been overlooked for a promotion or felt like office politics were a game you weren’t even invited to play—this conversation is your wake-up call.

🎯 Key Takeaways:

  • Why playing not to lose is the most dangerous move of all
  • How to recognize when you're already playing the game of office politics
  • Why assertiveness is a leadership strength, not a liability
  • The power of knowing who holds the cards—and how to build relationships with them
  • Ellen’s real-life stories of clients who asked, negotiated, and won
  • How to read a room and adapt without losing authenticity
  • Why your “win” doesn’t have to be being CEO—but you do need to define it

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Content provided by Natalie Luke, PhD and Natalie Luke. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Natalie Luke, PhD and Natalie Luke or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://ppacc.player.fm/legal.

Description:

In this episode 19 of UnCeiling You, Natalie Luke, PhD, sits down with Ellen Leikind—author of Poker Woman and creator of the BOLD negotiation system—to unpack the hidden costs of “playing it safe” at work. From poker tables to boardrooms, Ellen shares how understanding power dynamics, owning your voice, and knowing when to fold (or go all in) are essential to advancing your career. If you’ve ever been overlooked for a promotion or felt like office politics were a game you weren’t even invited to play—this conversation is your wake-up call.

🎯 Key Takeaways:

  • Why playing not to lose is the most dangerous move of all
  • How to recognize when you're already playing the game of office politics
  • Why assertiveness is a leadership strength, not a liability
  • The power of knowing who holds the cards—and how to build relationships with them
  • Ellen’s real-life stories of clients who asked, negotiated, and won
  • How to read a room and adapt without losing authenticity
  • Why your “win” doesn’t have to be being CEO—but you do need to define it

📚 Resources & Mentions:


💬 Connect with Us:


Send us a text

Support the show

Learn More at https://unceilingyou.com/

  continue reading

24 episodes

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