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Swingers Lifestyle: Is it Really Just the Single Guys? Part 2 of 4
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It's a reoccurring topic that single men in the swingers lifestyle get such a bad wrap. But why? I did some research by posting the question of .. What are some things single men in the lifestyle do, that just irks you so much.
The specific talking points for today's show are below.
- Single guys that grab. I can’t stand that!
- When they treat us women like we just have sex with everyone, and then get mad when we politely reject them.
- Follow my wife around, touching when I am not looking
- Assuming you’ll have sex with them because you’re in the lifestyle.
- Creeping into my inbox without asking permission first in the group.
- Not understanding no
- I cannot stand people who are pushy. If you proposition me and I say no.. the answer is no. It doesn’t mean ask me again in a week, a month. I am aware of their interest and if my decision changes I will inform them.
- If it’s not ENTHUSIASTIC CONSENT, it’s not consensual.
- Over-the-top compliments using words like "luscious, magnificent, goddess, delicious, breathtaking, etc" The ick factor is significant!!!
- Honestly it's things that make women turned off to all guys on the LS. I won't say it's all of them because I know some that are respectful. But as a guy who is part of a couple, I feel that I'm looked at by some as the same before even knowing about me.
- When they completely ignore the fact that a woman has a significant other and tries to aggressively (consistently tries to talk her into play without confronting her husband, significant other or life partner in some cases. To me that is completely disrespectful especially if they have been told to speak to said person already. This also applies to men who are there with girlfriends/ partners and some relationship men. But to be clear there are some women who fit the bill with this also. Just a humble opinion in a nutshell
- Tell you how they are so big and great they are going to make you have the best orgasm of your life.
- Wandering around a LS party until they ultimately realize it's clearly going nowhere because we aren't there for them.
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