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Tails of Truth: The Truth about Veterinary Medicine »

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Summary
In this heartfelt episode of Tails of Truth, Dr. Angie and veterinary nurse, JoJo open up about the hidden struggles of pet guardianship. They unpack the guilt, shame, and self-judgment that often comes with trying to do “the right thing” for our pets—whether it’s managing weight, affording care, or navigating imperfect choices. Through candid stories about their own pets, they shine a light on the emotional load of pet parenting, the sometimes unrealistic expectations in vet culture, and the deep need for compassion over criticism. This episode is a gentle reminder that love—not perfection—is what our animals need most.

Takeaways

Pet care can feel full of pressure and fear.
Veterinary professionals also struggle with guilt and shame.
It's common for pet guardians to feel judged for their choices.
Financial constraints can impact pet care decisions.
Pets often disguise their pain, making it hard to notice issues.
Pet guardians need nonjudgmental support from their veterinarians.
Just because we can do something, doesn't mean we should.
Pet parents deserve grace and understanding in their care efforts.
The bond between pets and their people is invaluable.
It's important to share experiences to alleviate feelings of isolation.

Sound Bites

"There's so much pressure, so much fear."
"I feel so lucky that the cats eat at all."
"There is no room for shame."
"I still deserve to have Fritz."
"Give yourself grace."

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Chapters

1. Navigating Guilt and Shame in Pet Parenting (00:00:00)

2. When The Vet Feels Like a Fraud (00:02:00)

3. Real Talk: We're All Just Doing Our Best (00:05:41)

4. Bodhi's Story: Denial, Aging, and Avoidance (00:06:16)

5. The Financial Side of Shame (00:09:54)

6. Corporate Clinics and Compassion Gaps (00:13:12)

7. Confession Times: Prescription Diets (00:16:15)

8. Just Because We an, Doesn't Mean We Should (00:20:36)

9. You Still Deserve to Have a Pet (00:24:00)

10. Grace Over Guilt: What Our Pets Really Need (00:28:04)

5 episodes