5: Why You Still Don't Feel Good Enough (and strive for perfection)

Talking with Emma: Coaching Tools that Make Living in a Midlife Body Easier

Description:
If you feel like you’re always striving — to get it right, to hold it together, to prove you’re good enough — and want to feel more confident instead, this episode is for you.

We talk about how perfectionism keeps you stuck in the cycle of “not enough,” even if you’ve done all the work to leave diet culture behind. You’ll learn why failure feels so personal, and how to build a different relationship with it — one that makes an easier relationship with yourself possible.

In this episode, I explain how perfectionism often stems from a nervous system response — not a personality flaw. We explore why failure feels unsafe, how diet culture taught us to internalise it, and how to begin softening those patterns with a powerful self-coaching tool.

You’ll learn:

• Why perfectionism is often a survival response, not a moral failing
• How diet culture links failure to personal worth
• Why success doesn’t solve the fear of “not being good enough”
• A self-coaching tool to help you feel safe with imperfection — and start living more fully

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