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Not to bring up old shxt, but I don't like how "the media" glazed over Kendrick Lamar calling out ShxtsNGigs specifically, on 'wacced out murals'. Kendrick is just as sick of the podcast industrial complex as the rest of us and I think that's hilarious. In this episode we talk about Kendrick (because I must) but more importantly we use the men-with-podcast-equipment epidemic as a jumping off point for how to approach trusting men in our community, the potential for betrayal - and how the way we approach both reflects our understandings of oppression, and our individual relationships to power, privilege, and accountability.
00:58 LA fires, California Black Freedom Fund
2:14 Kendrick Lamar is tired of the podcast industrial complex too
5:51 Queen is ok not watching anime
8:37 Were James & Fuhad ever “one of the good ones”
10:56 Is participating in misogyny a choice
13:18 Misogyny sounds cute in a British accent
15:26 Your privilege increases your capacity to harm
17:16 Hyper-focusing on marginalization lets privilege of the hook
19:33 Deifying “nice” men
23:05 Is the disappointment/upset at men like ShxtsNGigs performative
24:53 Are you an agent of oppression?
31:50 Are you in community with people more marginalized than you
36:40 Is your partner's misogyny a reflection of you
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15:26 Your privilege increases your capacity to harm
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