Burn the Damn Box: Why People Want You to Stay Small (and What to Do About It)
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You know that moment when someone says, “You’ve changed” — and it’s meant as an insult?
Yeah. This episode is for that moment. 🔥
This week, Anna is coming in hot with a raw, unfiltered, soul-stirring sermon about the box — the one society, family, friends, religion, culture (even your own partner) try to keep you in. Why? Because it keeps them safe. It keeps you small.
But here’s the truth bomb: That box was never built for the version of you who’s evolving. And it’s time to burn that bitch to the ground.
Anna unpacks:
🔥 The origin of the box and how it’s used to keep you predictable, comfortable, and palatable
🔥 Her own personal rock-bottom moment 15 years ago — from drugs, chaos, and toxicity to wellness, boundaries, and a wellness blog that triggered an entire friendship group
🔥 What happened when Ryan — her king, twin flame, love of her life — started breaking free from his own box (and the wild hate that came with it)
🔥 How to handle judgment, criticism, passive-aggression, and micro-hate when you start to rise
🔥 What to do when it comes from the people closest to you — friends, siblings, parents, even yourself
This is your reminder that you’re not here to be who others expect you to be. You’re here to become exactly who you are meant to be — big, bold, loud, soft, sensual, quiet, wild, expansive, sovereign.
So let them talk. Let them judge. Let them sit comfortably in their own cages.
You? You were born to burn the box and rise.
Bookmark this episode. Re-listen every time the criticism comes creeping in. And if no one else is in your corner reminding you of your power — let this be it.
💬 QUOTEABLES:
“They don’t hate the new you. They hate that you no longer fit inside the box they created for you.”
“Let them think you’ve changed. Because you have. And thank fuck for that.”
“You don’t owe comfort to anyone at the expense of your expansion.”
“Don’t crawl back into the box. Light it on fire and dance in the ashes.”
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