Navigating Puberty With Autistic Kids (w/ Dr. Whitney Casares) (S8E13)

The Autism Dad

This episode is being re-released for Autism Awareness Month.

In this powerful and important conversation, I’m joined by returning guest Dr. Whitney Casares. She’s not only a Stanford-trained pediatrician and public health expert, but she’s also an autism mom raising two differently wired kids. Together, we tackle a topic many of us try to avoid—puberty.

This episode is packed with practical advice, validation, and real talk for parents raising autistic and neurodivergent children. We explore how puberty may present differently, how to support our kids through emotional and physical changes, and how to have open, shame-free conversations about boundaries, hygiene, sex, and self-care. Whether your child is verbal, non-speaking, cognitively delayed, or anywhere in between—this episode is for you.

Key Topics Covered:

• Puberty differences in neurodivergent vs. neurotypical kids
• Hygiene and body safety tips for autistic tweens and teens
• How to talk about periods, masturbation, and boundaries without shame
• Why our kids need honesty—not fear or avoidance
• Handling sensory issues around puberty-related products
• Parental self-care in the midst of emotionally hard conversations

This conversation was originally uncomfortable for me to have—but I’m so glad I did. Your kids will benefit when you feel more empowered to guide them through this stage of life.

Guest Info:

Dr. Whitney Casares is a pediatrician, author, public health expert, and autism mom. Learn more at www.modernmommydoc.com

This episode is sponsored by:

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