Marriage is for More Than Happiness: Episode 1 Beyond the Fairytale: 10 Rules for a Marriage that Lasts

The Barbara Rainey Podcast

How can a couple invest in a marriage that lasts? It starts by gaining the right perspective. And, contrary to popular belief, the ultimate purpose of your marriage is not to make you happy. Dennis, Barbara, and Bob cover the first two rules.

Fun Fact from the Episode:

Did you know? Early in their marriage, Barbara assumed Dennis could fix things just like her dad could because she believed it was a typical male trait. It took her ten years to realize that Dennis had other strengths her dad didn't, teaching her to fully accept and love Dennis for who he is!

00:00 Acceptance in Marriage is Ongoing

04:20 "Marriage Advice for Young Couples"

08:30 Balancing Marriage and Biblical Roles

10:41 "Nourishing Love: A Husband's Journey"

15:13 Marriage Podcast Series Promotion

16:16 "Marriage Rules Beyond Fairytales"

5 Keys You’ll Learn in This Episode:

1. Shattering Unrealistic Expectations: Barbara shares her experience on accepting your spouse as they are and the ongoing practice it requires.
2. Marriage Beyond Happiness: Dennis explains why marriage is more about a transcendent purpose rather than just personal happiness.
3. Role of Marriage as a Growth Agent: Get insights into how marriage helps both men and women grow up and mature in ways they never imagined.
4. Selflessness in Marriage: Discover why self-denial is crucial and how it positively impacts your relationship.
5. Adapting to Differences: Hear Barbara’s journey of learning to appreciate the unique differences between her and Dennis.