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How COACHING Transforms Difficult People
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What do you do with that one high performer who brings in results but burns bridges while doing it? The one who’s smart, essential even, but also impossible to coach, manage, or talk to? This episode tackles one of the most frustrating leadership challenges: managing the brilliant but toxic—and offers a real solution.
This high-impact episode pulls back the curtain on what most leaders and executives avoid: addressing the destructive behaviors of their “uncoachable” top performers. It explores how difficult employees quietly drain morale, erode culture, and drive out great talent—even while hitting their KPIs.
But here’s the truth: difficult people don’t fix themselves. And avoiding the problem only lets the damage compound.
This episode offers the real solution: professional executive coaching. It breaks down the five-phase framework for coaching even the most stubborn, ego-driven, high-achieving personalities. From earning trust and uncovering blind spots to shifting mindset and building accountability, listeners will discover the game plan for turning brilliant jerks into respected leaders.
It also introduces a powerful new system: the 90-Day Manager to Leader Jumpstart Program, designed to transform accidental managers into intentional, people-first leaders. This isn’t about feel-good theory—it’s tactical, real-world leadership evolution with serious ROI.
👉 Claim Your Spot for the 90-Day Manager to Leader Transformation Now!
For any executive tired of tolerating bad behavior because “they get results,” this episode is your blueprint for sustainable change. The talent is there—now it's time to shape it into leadership that lasts.
⏱️ Episode Timestamps
00:00 – The toxic high performer problem most leaders ignore
02:15 – How difficult people quietly wreck culture and engagement
04:10 – Why traditional correction fails (and what actually works)
06:00 – The ROI of executive coaching: stats that silence skeptics
08:15 – The power of outside perspective: why coaches succeed where managers fail
10:00 – Strategy #1: Building awareness through tools like DISC and 360 reviews
12:05 – Strategy #2: Gaining permission and creating psychological safety
13:55 – Strategy #3: Co-creating agreements for lasting behavior change
16:15 – Strategy #4: Unlocking new possibilities and challenging fixed mindsets
17:55 – Strategy #5: Building accountability without pressure or burnout
19:30 – Introducing the 90-Day Manager to Leader Jumpstart Program
20:45 – Final takeaway: Why coaching is your most powerful leadership lever
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Manage episode 478553645 series 3039127
What do you do with that one high performer who brings in results but burns bridges while doing it? The one who’s smart, essential even, but also impossible to coach, manage, or talk to? This episode tackles one of the most frustrating leadership challenges: managing the brilliant but toxic—and offers a real solution.
This high-impact episode pulls back the curtain on what most leaders and executives avoid: addressing the destructive behaviors of their “uncoachable” top performers. It explores how difficult employees quietly drain morale, erode culture, and drive out great talent—even while hitting their KPIs.
But here’s the truth: difficult people don’t fix themselves. And avoiding the problem only lets the damage compound.
This episode offers the real solution: professional executive coaching. It breaks down the five-phase framework for coaching even the most stubborn, ego-driven, high-achieving personalities. From earning trust and uncovering blind spots to shifting mindset and building accountability, listeners will discover the game plan for turning brilliant jerks into respected leaders.
It also introduces a powerful new system: the 90-Day Manager to Leader Jumpstart Program, designed to transform accidental managers into intentional, people-first leaders. This isn’t about feel-good theory—it’s tactical, real-world leadership evolution with serious ROI.
👉 Claim Your Spot for the 90-Day Manager to Leader Transformation Now!
For any executive tired of tolerating bad behavior because “they get results,” this episode is your blueprint for sustainable change. The talent is there—now it's time to shape it into leadership that lasts.
⏱️ Episode Timestamps
00:00 – The toxic high performer problem most leaders ignore
02:15 – How difficult people quietly wreck culture and engagement
04:10 – Why traditional correction fails (and what actually works)
06:00 – The ROI of executive coaching: stats that silence skeptics
08:15 – The power of outside perspective: why coaches succeed where managers fail
10:00 – Strategy #1: Building awareness through tools like DISC and 360 reviews
12:05 – Strategy #2: Gaining permission and creating psychological safety
13:55 – Strategy #3: Co-creating agreements for lasting behavior change
16:15 – Strategy #4: Unlocking new possibilities and challenging fixed mindsets
17:55 – Strategy #5: Building accountability without pressure or burnout
19:30 – Introducing the 90-Day Manager to Leader Jumpstart Program
20:45 – Final takeaway: Why coaching is your most powerful leadership lever
Stay Connected with Newsletters and Updates
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Learn More About Our Online Training Courses
Contact [email protected] for a Free Consultation
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