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EP09: Mary McDirmid: Grief Is a Companion of Mine
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Trigger warning: This episode includes discussion of suicide and may be difficult for some listeners.
Grief doesn’t follow a schedule, and when it crashes into family dynamics, legal paperwork, and financial loose ends, it can leave you reeling.
Justin Weidenfeld sits down with Mary McDirmid, who shares what it was like to lose her brother to suicide and suddenly become the one in charge of sorting it all out. From managing estate logistics to telling her young children the news, Mary speaks honestly about the weight of responsibility, the sting of unfinished conversations, and the moments when everyday tasks, like buying eggs, felt impossible.
How do you keep functioning when you’re barely holding it together? Who do you turn to when you’re expected to be the strong one? Mary offers a clear answer: you build a support system that actually works. For her, that meant leaning on her counselor, showing up for sessions with her trainer, and giving herself permission to take care of her own emotional health. She also shares the three questions she believes every adult child should ask their parents while there’s still time to plan.
Justin and Mary’s conversation is a reminder that self-care isn’t optional when you’re grieving, and that having honest conversations now can spare your loved ones a lot of heartache later.
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Introduction to Grief and Money
01:02 Mary’s Grief Journey
03:46 Coping with Suicide and Sudden Loss
07:10 Talking to Kids About Death
12:49 Everyday Life After Loss
24:10 The Burden of Responsibility
29:12 Managing an Estate Without a Plan
35:12 Legal Complications of Unmarried Partnerships
42:30 What Not to Say to Someone Grieving
45:18 Building a Support System
52:53 The Fragility of Life
56:58 Redefining Self-Care
01:00:58 Financial Planning Through Grief
01:04:58 Conversations About Legacy and Wishes
Links
Connect with Mary McDirmid:
Instagram: workingmommingitforward
All Needs Planning - https://allneedsplanning.com/
https://courageousparentsnetwork.org/
Connect with Justin Weidenfeld:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justin-weidenfeld/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecurrencyofgrief_podcast
Website: https://www.ironbridgewc.com/team/justin-weidenfeld
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