The 5 Shifts I Made to Attract Healthy Love (After 15 Years of being Lied to Cheated On)

The Femme Cast

In this episode of ​The Femme Cast,​ I share my deeply personal journey of healing, self-discovery, and transformation after a 15-year toxic relationship where I was repeatedly lied to and cheated on, and then of course...made to believe it was all in my head. If you’ve ever felt exhausted by toxic dynamics or emotionally unavailable partners, this episode is for you.

We’ll explore:

• The moment I walked into my first healer’s office and realized I was living in a false sense of empowerment.
• The “buffet analogy” that perfectly captures the emotional burnout from toxic relationships.
• The five pivotal shifts I made to rebuild my self-worth and attract healthy, loving connections.
• How emotional energetics became the cornerstone of my healing process.

This episode is all about reclaiming your power, recognizing your worth, and creating space for the love you deserve.
🎧If you’re ready to break free from harmful patterns and embrace healthy relationships, you don’t want to miss this.

Let's do this.

PS: Stop begging to be chosen. Choose yourself instead.

In case no one told you today, you’re not here to beg, chase, or perform for the bare minimum. You’re here to reclaim your power and become magnetic to real, soul-aligned love, success, and abundance.

Reclaim the version of you that never had to beg to be chosen.

Book your 90-minute Sacred Reclamation Intensive here:
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But fair warning—authentic connections, aligned opportunities, and breakthroughs in love, money, and purpose are inevitable.

Chapters

1. "Toxic Relationship Burnout and Healing" (00:00:00)

2. Building Healthy Relationships Through Self-Love (00:14:10)

3. Breaking Toxic Relationship Patterns (00:33:12)