The Relationship RESET: How to Attract, Reconnect, and Thrive in LOVE with Marriage and Family Therapist, Author, Podcaster, Dene Logan

The Happy Hustle Podcast

What if everything you’ve learned about love and relationships is only scratching the surface?

Let’s be real—today’s dating and relationship landscape is confusing AF. With tech distractions, shifting roles, and a world that’s constantly hustling, finding deep, meaningful connections feels more complicated than ever. Masculine and feminine energies are out of whack. Men feel unsure of their roles. Women are rising into power, and society hasn’t quite caught up with how to balance it all.

That’s why I had to bring Dene Logan to The Happy Hustle Podcast. Dene is a licensed marriage and family therapist, an author, and a podcaster who’s been in the trenches helping couples figure this stuff out. And in this episode, we unpack everything you’re not being taught about relationships, self-discovery, and the energies that shape your love life.

This convo goes way beyond “relationship advice.” We talked about the deep stuff—how people are seeking fulfillment outside themselves, how modern dynamics have shifted, and why couples often wait until things fall apart before asking for help. Dené broke down how self-awareness and healing are the real secrets to attracting the right partner. And she even dropped some wisdom about celibacy being a tool for growth, which, let’s be honest, most people aren’t even thinking about when they’re out there swiping left and right.

One thing that hit home was how love has been devalued in today’s hustle culture. We chase money, success, followers—but forget that relationships are sacred. Dene reminded us: real relationships require intention, mindfulness, and communication. Not just when things go bad—but every damn day.

We also got into some fire convo around masculine and feminine energy—and before you roll your eyes or think it’s all woo-woo, listen up. These energies aren’t about gender. They exist in all of us. The masculine craves direction, purpose, and trust. The feminine wants to be seen, to feel flow, and to be held in presence. The problem is, most of us were never taught how to honor and balance both.

So now we’ve got dudes confused about how to show up. Women stepping into their power and getting labeled “too much.” And couples who love each other, but feel disconnected because no one taught them how to communicate their needs and hold space for each other’s growth.

Dene and I also touched on the sneaky issues wrecking intimacy these days—like porn addiction, lack of presence, and trying to force traditional roles that don’t work anymore. It’s wild, man. In a world where you can connect with anyone instantly, more people than ever feel alone. And the truth is, community and honest, face-to-face connections are the antidote.

One of the things I loved most about this convo is that it’s not about being perfect. It’s about being conscious. Dené says the couples who make it long-term aren’t the ones who avoid conflict—they’re the ones who keep showing up with curiosity, gratitude, and a willingness to grow. Instead of nitpicking your partner’s flaws, focus on what they do well. Watch how fast the energy shifts when appreciation becomes the default.

She also reminded me that longevity in a relationship doesn’t equal success. Just because you’ve been together for 10 years doesn’t mean you’re aligned or fulfilled. Real success is about shared vision, mutual respect, and daily efforts to connect, not coasting through out of habit or fear.

We even got into how celibacy, for some, can be a reset. A way to cut the noise and figure out what you want, who you are, and what kind of energy you’re bringing to the table. It’s not about punishment—it’s about powerful clarity.

And you know I had to ask her about what makes love last. Her answer? Growth. If you’re not growing, together or individually, the relationship stalls. Personal development fuels relational development. And when both people are doing their inner work? That’s when the magic happens.

This episode is a must-listen if you’re an entrepreneur trying to build your empire and nurture a meaningful relationship at the same time. Because the truth is—you can’t pour into your business if your personal life is draining you. And honestly, what’s all that success for if you don’t have anyone to share it with?

So if you’re tired of surface-level connections… if you’re wondering why the spark is fading… or if you’re just ready to understand how to show up more powerfully in your relationships—this episode is your guide.

We get into the juicy stuff—real stories, practical insights, and tools you can use right now to deepen intimacy, grow through challenges, and stay aligned with your truth.

It’s time to bring more depth, more awareness, and more sacredness into your relationships. Because love isn’t a distraction from the hustle—it’s the fuel that keeps your soul in the game.

In this episode, we cover:

00:00 Introduction to Love and Relationships
04:30 Understanding Masculine and Feminine Energies
11:10 Navigating Modern Relationship Dynamics
18:43 The Importance of Self-Discovery in Relationships
24:30 Attracting the Right Partner in Today's World
27:44 Reconnecting in Relationships
34:00 Navigating Relationship Changes
39:40 The Importance of Mindfulness in Relationships
45:00 Gratitude and Appreciation in Love
52:00 The Essence of Happy Hustlin'

What does happy Hustlin mean to you?
Dene says Happy Hustlin is just really trusting that whatever is meant for me will not miss me. So as long as I'm in alignment with following my bliss, normally everything that I'm meant to experience comes to fruition. So it's like worrying less and trusting.

Connect with Dene
https://www.instagram.com/dene.logan/
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCY1-RvtCuTlvGgbv3OkVNqQ
https://www.tiktok.com/@denelogan?_t=8hBC24D9WsE&_r=1

Find Dene on this website: https://denelogan.com/

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https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFDNsD59tLxv2JfEuSsNMOQ/featured

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“It’s time to Happy Hustle, a blissfully balanced life you love, full of passion, purpose, and positive impact!”

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