What to Do When Kids Struggle to Engage in Play

The How to ABA Podcast

Play is a fundamental part of childhood, so what happens when a child struggles to engage in it? In this episode, we explore the many forms play can take, why it's essential for development, and how to support learners who find it challenging.

We break down what "play" really means (beyond just pretend scenarios) and include everything from sports and games to musical instruments and picture books. We talk about common barriers to play, such as social challenges, sensory sensitivities, and limited interests, and how to meet kids where they are by shaping existing interests into meaningful, engaging activities.

You'll hear practical strategies for teaching and supporting play: using visual models, offering choices, setting up structured yet flexible play environments, and carefully selecting peers for playdates. We also discuss the value of parallel play and when to pivot from play to leisure skills—emphasizing that enjoyment and engagement are what matter most.

What’s Inside:

• What is play?
• Identifying common barriers that make play challenging for some children.
• Strategies for supporting and shaping meaningful play experiences.
• Pivoting from play skills to leisure skills for lifelong enjoyment.

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