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232. Stop People-Pleasing and Start Speaking Your Truth w/ Chris Marr
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Chris Marr, client communication expert and authority coach, shares powerful insights on establishing genuine authority by embracing authenticity rather than seeking approval. He explores how overcoming people-pleasing tendencies and speaking your truth creates stronger relationships, clearer boundaries, and more impactful communication both professionally and personally.
• Finding comfort in your own identity after years of feeling like "a square peg in a round hole"
• Distinguishing between authoritative communication and being an authoritarian
• How accidentally diminishing your authority through language and non-verbal cues prevents others from respecting you
• The inverse relationship: addressing difficult conversations directly strengthens relationships rather than damaging them
• Setting boundaries and becoming comfortable with saying "no" to things that don't align with your priorities
• Viewing confidence issues as skill issues—acquire the right skills to build confidence in any area
• Why external validation seeking prevents authentic connection and diminishes your impact
Connect with Chris Marr on Instagram @theauthoritativecoach or visit theauthoritativecoach.com to learn more about his book and coaching programs.
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Chapters
1. Mindset Cafe Introduction (00:00:00)
2. Meet Chris Marr: Client Communication Expert (00:03:11)
3. Finding Your Authentic Self (00:09:52)
4. What Makes an Authoritative Coach (00:22:13)
5. The Problem with People Pleasing (00:30:14)
6. Saying No and Setting Boundaries (00:36:10)
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