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Why 'Staying For The Kids' Might Be Doing More Harm Than Good, With Guest Kristy Dyer

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What happens when parents sacrifice happiness for the illusion of stability?

Kristy Dyer joins Michelle to reflect on her experience growing up in a high-conflict household, and how that shaped her decision to leave a marriage that mirrored those same emotional patterns.

Together, they explore how generational healing begins with honest parenting, and why children need emotionally safe environments more than they need traditional structures.

What You’ll Learn
• The unintended harm of “staying for the kids”
• How emotional labor and perfectionism show up in parenting
• Why transparency and repair matter more than perfection
• Tools for raising emotionally safe children after separation
• The importance of healing generational trauma through co-parenting

Episode Highlights
03:02 – Kristy’s childhood: blended family, absent father
07:40 – The burden of perfectionism and emotional labor
12:15 – Repeating childhood patterns in adult relationships
15:50 – Reframing “starter marriages” and shame
22:12 – Building trust through repair after separation

Meet Kristy Dyer
Kristy is a co-parenting mom of three raising her children with honesty, healing, and courage. Her journey of breaking generational cycles offers insight for parents navigating divorce and reparenting themselves in the process.

Final Thought
“Your kids don’t need you to stay. They need you to heal.”

Want to learn more?

Explore Michelle's courses on kids & divorce:

How to Talk to Kids About Divorce

Building Resilience: Helping Children to Adapt and Thrive After Divorce

Keep In Touch:

Subscribe to our YouTube Channel

Website

Facebook

TikTok

LinkedIn

Read the full transcript

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Manage episode 487779024 series 3430677
Content provided by Michelle Dempsey-Multack. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Michelle Dempsey-Multack or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://ppacc.player.fm/legal.

What happens when parents sacrifice happiness for the illusion of stability?

Kristy Dyer joins Michelle to reflect on her experience growing up in a high-conflict household, and how that shaped her decision to leave a marriage that mirrored those same emotional patterns.

Together, they explore how generational healing begins with honest parenting, and why children need emotionally safe environments more than they need traditional structures.

What You’ll Learn
• The unintended harm of “staying for the kids”
• How emotional labor and perfectionism show up in parenting
• Why transparency and repair matter more than perfection
• Tools for raising emotionally safe children after separation
• The importance of healing generational trauma through co-parenting

Episode Highlights
03:02 – Kristy’s childhood: blended family, absent father
07:40 – The burden of perfectionism and emotional labor
12:15 – Repeating childhood patterns in adult relationships
15:50 – Reframing “starter marriages” and shame
22:12 – Building trust through repair after separation

Meet Kristy Dyer
Kristy is a co-parenting mom of three raising her children with honesty, healing, and courage. Her journey of breaking generational cycles offers insight for parents navigating divorce and reparenting themselves in the process.

Final Thought
“Your kids don’t need you to stay. They need you to heal.”

Want to learn more?

Explore Michelle's courses on kids & divorce:

How to Talk to Kids About Divorce

Building Resilience: Helping Children to Adapt and Thrive After Divorce

Keep In Touch:

Subscribe to our YouTube Channel

Website

Facebook

TikTok

LinkedIn

Read the full transcript

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  continue reading

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