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Induced Lactation 101: Queer, Trans, and Chestfeeding Realness

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Can cis men be lactation consultants? Can trans folks chestfeed? Can someone who had top surgery still make milk? YES, YES, and YES. In this eye-opening Pride Extravaganza episode, Jaimie sits down with Jacob Engelsman, a cisgender queer man, lactation consultant, and author of Lactation for the Rest of Us, a groundbreaking guide designed specifically for queer and trans families. Together, they dive into all the whos, whys, and hows of induced lactationโ€”debunking myths and expanding the conversation around who gets to feed babies with their bodies. Jacob also shares his personal story of love, queerness, and staying connected to his trans husband through their evolving identities.

๐ŸŽ‰ NYC Queer Fam! Donโ€™t forget to RSVP to the Pride Family Meet-Up on June 28th at Sugar Mouse!

Thereโ€™ll be games for the kids, a full bar for the adults, and a Drag Story Hour with Miz Jade! All the info is right here. ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ

๐Ÿ“ธ Learn more about discounted photo sessions with Suzanne:

www.suzannefiorephotography.com

Mention The Queer Family Podcast to receive a special offer.

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Thanks to our sponsor California Cryobank!

Thinking of growing your queer family? Use code QUEERFAM25 at cryobank.com for a FREE Level 2 subscription to their donor catalog!

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Interested in advertising? Check out our sponsor packages โ โ โ here.โ โ โ 

๐ŸŽง Loved this episode?

Support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!

OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations:

๐Ÿ”— redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Key Takeaways

  • Inducing lactation for trans women, trans men, and non-binary folks
  • Breastfeeding/chestfeeding after top surgery
  • How society sees queer families (before vs. after transition)
  • What most people donโ€™t know about lactation
  • Jacobโ€™s unique journey from food service to lactation expert
  • Staying connected through a partnerโ€™s transition
  • Queer visibility, medical bias, and access to care
  • Becoming a โ€œguncleโ€ and chosen family pride
  • The power of scrappy queer problem-solving

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ About the Guest(s)๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ

Jacob Engelsman (he/him) is a queer cisgender man, IBCLC (International Board Certified Lactation Consultant), educator, and the author of Lactation for the Rest of Us: A Guide for Queer and Trans Parents and Helpers. He specializes in supporting LGBTQIA+ families on their feeding journeys and is committed to making lactation knowledge more inclusive and accessible.

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Resources Mentioned

๐ŸŒ Website: jacobengelsmanibclc.com

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ What resonated most with you?

Drop a comment, DM us, or email [email protected]โ€”we love hearing your stories!

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Letโ€™s Connect!

Find us on IG, TikTok, Bluesky, & YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Watch full episodes on YouTube

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Order the If These Ovaries Could Talk book

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Edited by: Jerson Barajas ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Logo by: Daneen Stevenato ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Shop merch here. ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Full transcript & episode info available on our website

๐Ÿ—ณ๏ธ VOTE. ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ ADVOCATE. ๐Ÿผ BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.

The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation!


Support this podcast at โ€” https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Can cis men be lactation consultants? Can trans folks chestfeed? Can someone who had top surgery still make milk? YES, YES, and YES. In this eye-opening Pride Extravaganza episode, Jaimie sits down with Jacob Engelsman, a cisgender queer man, lactation consultant, and author of Lactation for the Rest of Us, a groundbreaking guide designed specifically for queer and trans families. Together, they dive into all the whos, whys, and hows of induced lactationโ€”debunking myths and expanding the conversation around who gets to feed babies with their bodies. Jacob also shares his personal story of love, queerness, and staying connected to his trans husband through their evolving identities.

๐ŸŽ‰ NYC Queer Fam! Donโ€™t forget to RSVP to the Pride Family Meet-Up on June 28th at Sugar Mouse!

Thereโ€™ll be games for the kids, a full bar for the adults, and a Drag Story Hour with Miz Jade! All the info is right here. ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ

๐Ÿ“ธ Learn more about discounted photo sessions with Suzanne:

www.suzannefiorephotography.com

Mention The Queer Family Podcast to receive a special offer.

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Thanks to our sponsor California Cryobank!

Thinking of growing your queer family? Use code QUEERFAM25 at cryobank.com for a FREE Level 2 subscription to their donor catalog!

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Interested in advertising? Check out our sponsor packages โ โ โ here.โ โ โ 

๐ŸŽง Loved this episode?

Support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!

OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations:

๐Ÿ”— redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Key Takeaways

  • Inducing lactation for trans women, trans men, and non-binary folks
  • Breastfeeding/chestfeeding after top surgery
  • How society sees queer families (before vs. after transition)
  • What most people donโ€™t know about lactation
  • Jacobโ€™s unique journey from food service to lactation expert
  • Staying connected through a partnerโ€™s transition
  • Queer visibility, medical bias, and access to care
  • Becoming a โ€œguncleโ€ and chosen family pride
  • The power of scrappy queer problem-solving

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ About the Guest(s)๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ

Jacob Engelsman (he/him) is a queer cisgender man, IBCLC (International Board Certified Lactation Consultant), educator, and the author of Lactation for the Rest of Us: A Guide for Queer and Trans Parents and Helpers. He specializes in supporting LGBTQIA+ families on their feeding journeys and is committed to making lactation knowledge more inclusive and accessible.

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Resources Mentioned

๐ŸŒ Website: jacobengelsmanibclc.com

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ What resonated most with you?

Drop a comment, DM us, or email [email protected]โ€”we love hearing your stories!

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Letโ€™s Connect!

Find us on IG, TikTok, Bluesky, & YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Watch full episodes on YouTube

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Order the If These Ovaries Could Talk book

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Edited by: Jerson Barajas ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Logo by: Daneen Stevenato ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Shop merch here. ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Full transcript & episode info available on our website

๐Ÿ—ณ๏ธ VOTE. ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ ADVOCATE. ๐Ÿผ BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.

The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation!


Support this podcast at โ€” https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
  continue reading

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