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Death, Divorce, and Goldfish: A Surprisingly Hopeful Conversation with Kim Mackey-Pearson
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Therapist Kim Mackey-Pearson brings deep wisdom and compassion to grief counseling, helping individuals navigate loss while discovering pathways toward healing and hope. Kim creates safe spaces where people can honor their pain, reconnect with themselves, and reimagine life after grief.
• Kim's journey into grief counseling began in middle school when selected for a program teaching children about death
• Hospice work allowed Kim to witness more peaceful, caring end-of-life experiences
• Grief extends beyond death to include retirement, divorce, identity changes, and physical limitations
• Children need space to process grief rather than being shielded from funeral rites and discussions
• The best thing to say to someone grieving: "I have no words, just know I'm here for you"
• "Grief groceries" (comfort foods delivered) offer practical support when someone is grieving
• Include children in conversations about death early - even a goldfish with limited lifespan provides learning opportunity
• Prepare for end-of-life by documenting your wishes to ease burden on family members
• The "NOK Box" organizes important information for next of kin after death
If you're experiencing grief, reach out to Kim at [email protected] or find her on Psychology Today.
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Chapters
1. Meet Kim: Grief Counselor and Friend (00:00:00)
2. Kim's Journey Into Grief Counseling (00:04:58)
3. The Privilege of Being with Dying People (00:08:18)
4. How to Talk to Children About Death (00:12:51)
5. Grief Beyond Death: Life's Many Losses (00:17:45)
6. What to Say When Someone is Grieving (00:24:22)
7. Planning for End of Life (00:30:20)
8. The Knock Box and Final Thoughts (00:35:27)
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