ADHD and Cognitive Distortions

The Self-Loved ADHD Woman Way®️

🎙 Episode 103: ADHD and Cognitive Distortions – What They Are and What to Do Instead

Do you ever spiral over something small—like a dead bug on the floor—and suddenly you’re convinced your whole life is unraveling?

That’s not just anxiety. That’s a cognitive distortion—and ADHD brains are especially prone to them.

In this episode, Jen Barnes, ADHD Success Coach and host of The Self-Loved ADHD Woman’s Way, shares the 7 most common cognitive distortions that ADHD women struggle with, why they happen, and what you can do to catch them before they take over your day.

You’ll learn:

• What cognitive distortions are and why ADHD women are more susceptible
• The real-life story of a tick (that wasn’t a tick) and how it sparked a spiral
• The 7 most common distortions including catastrophizing, mind reading, and disqualifying the positive
• Why CBT alone often isn’t enough for lasting change—and what works better
• A simple framework to help you notice, validate, and regulate when you get caught in distorted thinking

Whether you’re an ADHD woman entrepreneur or professional, this episode will help you understand your thought patterns more clearly, stop the spiral, and get back to what truly matters.

🔑 Mentioned Cognitive Distortions:

1. Catastrophizing
2. All-or-Nothing Thinking
3. Overgeneralization
4. Personalization
5. Mind Reading
6. Should Statements
7. Disqualifying the Positive

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