Episode 17 (Part 2): Cults, Collusion, Coverups and the Hawaii Military Lore

The Wounds That Do Not Heal

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In this episode, Tressa explores the dichotomy of Hawaii as both a paradise and a challenging station for military personnel, highlighting the high cost of living and unique dynamics that can create stress, especially for lower-ranking service members with families. The discussion then shifts to a broader trend of young men, including teenagers, resorting to extreme violence and murder when faced with rejection, emphasizing the alarming rise in teen violence since the 90s and the impact of access to firearms and lack of emotional control.
The episode underscores the importance of teaching young people about healthy boundaries and coercive control to prevent teen dating violence. The host shares personal insights and expert opinions on instilling these values in children from a young age.
Tragic stories of two women, Ms. Kayla Holder and Ms. Laau Jordan Laulusa, who lost their lives to young service members, are shared to highlight the devastating impact of emotional abuse and lack of self-regulation in relationships.
The episode concludes with a call to action, urging listeners to rate and review the show to help reach more people in similar situations and offering safety tips for those considering leaving abusive relationships.
Sources for today's episode:
Intimate Partner Homicide of Adolescents | Adolescent Medicine | JAMA Pediatrics | JAMA Network
Family mourns victims of Ewa Beach double-homicide; suspect charged, bail set at $2M
Ex-gf of Mililani murder suspect speaks out | KHON2