Artwork

Content provided by Jake Ernst and Simon Paluck. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Jake Ernst and Simon Paluck or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://ppacc.player.fm/legal.
Player FM - Podcast App
Go offline with the Player FM app!

The two most essential skills for relationships

48:08
 
Share
 

Manage episode 477512737 series 3418160
Content provided by Jake Ernst and Simon Paluck. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Jake Ernst and Simon Paluck or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://ppacc.player.fm/legal.

This Isn't Therapy... it's a long overdue convo about the two most essential skills in relationships. In this episode, Jake and Simon discuss a statistic about emotional availability: on average, we are only emotionally available for our partners about 9% of the time. With that in mind, they discuss how to get closer to the 9% using the two essential skills of attunement and repair. Throughout the episode, they discuss how to implement these skills through the development of micro-skills.

Got a quandary, query, or question? Submit your Q (anonymously) to Asking For A Friend...

Creators & Guests


Hello, hi!
Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣
Follow us on TikTok: @notatherapypodcast
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon

Original music composed by Kat Burns and performed by KASHKA.

  continue reading

190 episodes

Artwork
iconShare
 
Manage episode 477512737 series 3418160
Content provided by Jake Ernst and Simon Paluck. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Jake Ernst and Simon Paluck or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://ppacc.player.fm/legal.

This Isn't Therapy... it's a long overdue convo about the two most essential skills in relationships. In this episode, Jake and Simon discuss a statistic about emotional availability: on average, we are only emotionally available for our partners about 9% of the time. With that in mind, they discuss how to get closer to the 9% using the two essential skills of attunement and repair. Throughout the episode, they discuss how to implement these skills through the development of micro-skills.

Got a quandary, query, or question? Submit your Q (anonymously) to Asking For A Friend...

Creators & Guests


Hello, hi!
Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣
Follow us on TikTok: @notatherapypodcast
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon

Original music composed by Kat Burns and performed by KASHKA.

  continue reading

190 episodes

All episodes

×
 
Loading …

Welcome to Player FM!

Player FM is scanning the web for high-quality podcasts for you to enjoy right now. It's the best podcast app and works on Android, iPhone, and the web. Signup to sync subscriptions across devices.

 

Quick Reference Guide

Copyright 2025 | Privacy Policy | Terms of Service | | Copyright
Listen to this show while you explore
Play