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The two most essential skills for relationships
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This Isn't Therapy... it's a long overdue convo about the two most essential skills in relationships. In this episode, Jake and Simon discuss a statistic about emotional availability: on average, we are only emotionally available for our partners about 9% of the time. With that in mind, they discuss how to get closer to the 9% using the two essential skills of attunement and repair. Throughout the episode, they discuss how to implement these skills through the development of micro-skills.
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Creators & Guests
- Simon Paluck - Host
- Jake Ernst - Host
Hello, hi!
Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast
Follow us on TikTok: @notatherapypodcast
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
Original music composed by Kat Burns and performed by KASHKA.
190 episodes
Manage episode 477512737 series 3418160
This Isn't Therapy... it's a long overdue convo about the two most essential skills in relationships. In this episode, Jake and Simon discuss a statistic about emotional availability: on average, we are only emotionally available for our partners about 9% of the time. With that in mind, they discuss how to get closer to the 9% using the two essential skills of attunement and repair. Throughout the episode, they discuss how to implement these skills through the development of micro-skills.
Got a quandary, query, or question? Submit your Q (anonymously) to Asking For A Friend...
Creators & Guests
- Simon Paluck - Host
- Jake Ernst - Host
Hello, hi!
Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast
Follow us on TikTok: @notatherapypodcast
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
Original music composed by Kat Burns and performed by KASHKA.
190 episodes
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