Two Secrets to Enjoying the Toddler Years

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Two Secrets to Enjoying the Toddler Years

In this episode, we reveal the two key factors that can help parents actually enjoy the toddler years:
1. addressing shame and
2. letting go of perfectionism.

We discuss how these issues often go unnoticed but heavily impact our parenting experience.

There's also an exciting announcement about the upcoming Free Class and Guide: 'Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Workshop' on May 8th, which offers practical solutions for 7 common toddler struggles. You can get it here.
Learn about the Happy Toddler Confident Parent cohort starting in mid-May and how it aims to provide a supportive community and expert advice across various parenting challenges. Join us to understand how to shift towards a growth mindset and find joy in the beautiful imperfections of parenting, here.

00:00 Introduction: Enjoying the Toddler Years
00:29 Upcoming Workshop Announcement
01:11 Common Toddler Struggles
02:16 Understanding Shame in Parenting
03:28 The Myth of Perfect Parenting
08:32 Perfectionism vs. Shame
09:41 Impact on Parenting Joy
21:43 Breaking Free from Shame and Perfectionism
23:31 Expert Support and Resources
27:06 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!

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Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!

Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.

Sing up for 'The Perfectly Imperfect Family: Real Solutions for Mindful Parents Navigating Today’s Biggest Challenges" Book Launch Special for $1.99 here!
Check out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!
Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast
Join the Toddler Mom Community
Follow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparenting
Watch the YouTube channel
Check out the blog

73 episodes

Two Secrets to Enjoying the Toddler Years

Toddler Toolkit

published about a year ago

MP3•Episode home

Two Secrets to Enjoying the Toddler Years

In this episode, we reveal the two key factors that can help parents actually enjoy the toddler years:
1. addressing shame and
2. letting go of perfectionism.

We discuss how these issues often go unnoticed but heavily impact our parenting experience.

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Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.

Sing up for 'The Perfectly Imperfect Family: Real Solutions for Mindful Parents Navigating Today’s Biggest Challenges" Book Launch Special for $1.99 here!
Check out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!
Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast
Join the Toddler Mom Community
Follow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparenting
Watch the YouTube channel
Check out the blog

73 episodes

#Parenting #Podcasting Education #Heather Schalk, M.Ed #Heather Schalk

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From Throwing to Lining Up: What Your Child’s Play Is Really Telling You with Ruth Vercoe 55:35

25 days ago55:35

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There may just be a method to the madness after all! Our toddlers are constantly learning about the world around them. And the main way in which they learn is through play and play schemas. From throwing things and ripping pages out of books to tossing all their toys out of the bin and lining their cars up in a certain way, our toddlers are naturally moving through phases that help them better understand how the world works. Though it can be frustrating for us as parents, our children aren't just trying to annoy us but are, in fact, simply learning. Join Heather and Ruth in this mind-blowing episode where the method behind the madness is finally revealed and play schemas are explained! If your toddler has a knack for throwing, tearing, ripping, dropping, or climbing, then this is one episode you won't want to miss! About Ruth: Ruth Vercoe is a teacher-turned-mum on a mission to demystify child’s play through understanding play schemas. If you’ve ever found yourself asking, “Why is my child doing that?” —whether it’s throwing soft toys, hiding stones around the house, or lining up crayons—you’re certainly not alone. It wasn’t until Ruth was in the thick of parenting that she realized she had entered this journey with an unfair advantage. Her unique edge was a deep understanding of play schemas—how they show up in young children and how to work with them, rather than against them. Now, she’s passionate about helping other parents gain that same insight. Ruth comes to this first and foremost as a wife and mum to two amazing young boys. She brings over 15 years of experience working with children, with the majority of her teaching career focused on junior-aged students. A lifelong learner, Ruth holds a Bachelor of Education, a postgraduate diploma in Special Education, a Certificate in Digital and Online Learning, and a Master’s in Education—not to mention a deep love of the outdoors. Connect with Ruth on Instagram @Play_Schemas ; on her website, playschemas.com ; or on her podcast " Demystifying Child's Play "! ------------------------------------------------------ Ready to get your toddler to listen in 2 seconds? Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children who listen in 2 seconds. Check out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course! Grab the 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Free Class and guide! Join the Toddler Mom Community Follow me on Instagram @twinmom_roadmap Watch the YouTube channel Check out the blog…

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Two Secrets to Enjoying the Toddler Years 28:07

5 weeks ago28:07

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Two Secrets to Enjoying the Toddler Years In this episode, we reveal the two key factors that can help parents actually enjoy the toddler years: 1. addressing shame and 2. letting go of perfectionism. We discuss how these issues often go unnoticed but heavily impact our parenting experience. There's also an exciting announcement about the upcoming Free Class and Guide : 'Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Workshop' on May 8th , which offers practical solutions for 7 common toddler struggles. You can get it here. Learn about the Happy Toddler Confident Parent cohort starting in mid-May and how it aims to provide a supportive community and expert advice across various parenting challenges. Join us to understand how to shift towards a growth mindset and find joy in the beautiful imperfections of parenting, here . 00:00 Introduction: Enjoying the Toddler Years 00:29 Upcoming Workshop Announcement 01:11 Common Toddler Struggles 02:16 Understanding Shame in Parenting 03:28 The Myth of Perfect Parenting 08:32 Perfectionism vs. Shame 09:41 Impact on Parenting Joy 21:43 Breaking Free from Shame and Perfectionism 23:31 Expert Support and Resources 27:06 Conclusion and Final Thoughts "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast —It's HERE! ------------------------------------------------------ Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children. Sing up for 'The Perfectly Imperfect Family: Real Solutions for Mindful Parents Navigating Today’s Biggest Challenges" Book Launch Special for $1.99 here! Check out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course! Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast Join the Toddler Mom Community Follow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparenting Watch the YouTube channel Check out the blog…

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Understanding Toddler Tantrums: Real-Life Stories + What Helped 25:08

6 weeks ago25:08

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Understanding Toddler Tantrums: Real Life Stories + What Helped Welcome to the Toddler Toolkit podcast! In this episode, we delve deep into the world of toddler tantrums, exploring not just the outward emotional outbursts but the deeper unmet needs and expectations behind them. Host Heather shares real-life tantrum stories from her own family to illustrate key parenting concepts such as the 'picture perfect mindset,' and the importance of letting toddlers feel their emotions fully. From a pizza meltdown to a playground blowup, Heather offers valuable insights and strategies to help parents navigate these challenging moments and foster emotional regulation skills in their toddlers. Plus, learn about the upcoming 'Happy Toddler, Confident Parent' cohort , designed to give parents the tools to better connect with and support their children. 00:00 Introduction to Toddler Tantrums 01:00 The Pizza Tantrum: Picture Perfect Mindset 06:02 The Bubble Blower Incident: Frustration Unveiled 10:27 The Pre-K School Visit Tantrum: Transitions and Expectations 19:12 The Playground Meltdown: Overstimulation and Regulation Heather announced her upcoming co-authored book, 'The Perfectly Imperfect Family: Real Solutions for Mindful Parents Navigating Today’s Biggest Challenges,' which offers practical wisdom from experts on navigating challenging family situations: https://www.heatherschalkparenting.com/signup-list-for-book "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like separation anxiety, I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast —It's Coming Soon! So STAY TUNED! And be sure to grab the 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Free Class and guide! ------------------------------------------------------ Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children. Sing up for 'The Perfectly Imperfect Family: Real Solutions for Mindful Parents Navigating Today’s Biggest Challenges" Book Launch Special for $1.99 here! Check out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course! Grab the 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Free Class and guide! Join the Toddler Mom Community Follow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparenting Watch the YouTube channel Check out the blog…

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Breast Milk, Bottles & Burnout: Surviving Baby Feeding Overwhelm with Roxie Alsruhe 39:07

7 weeks ago39:07

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Whether you're a brand new parent or a veteran, keeping track of a baby's feeding schedule is not easy! Roxie Alsruhe discovered this first-hand while caring for her newborn son. When their baby started losing weight instead of gaining, Roxie and her wife did everything they could to help him get the nourishment he needed. Through the many sleepless nights and tiring days, Roxie kept careful track of each and every feeding, bottle, and expiration date. But when it started to feel overwhelming and downright impossible to do, Roxie began to wonder why something hadn't been created to help keep track of it all. And with that, Roxie set out to create it herself! Join Heather and her guest in this insightful interview as Roxie shares all about her parenting journey, how she got the idea to create the HoopDee app, and what this resource does to help all parents better care for their babies and beyond. If you're into learning about new ways to make your parenting journey easier, smoother, and less chaotic, then this is an episode you'll definitely want to tune into! About Roxie: Roxie Alsruhe (pronounced Als-roo) is the founder of HoopDee. HoopDee offers a free app that manages and tracks breast milk and baby formula so new parents never waste a drop. In the summer of 2025, HoopDee will launch a line of patent-pending products that automate the milk managing process even more and enhance your app experience. Roxie is a mom to a sweet 15 month old boy and two senior rescue pups. She is based out of Baltimore, Maryland. She and Heather met in 2nd grade at Cub Run Elementary in Centreville, VA. Connect with Roxie on her website, getHoopDee.com , or @getHoopDee on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, and Youtube! ------------------------------------------------------ Ready to get your toddler to listen in 2 seconds? Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children who listen in 2 seconds. Check out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course! Grab the 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Free Class and guide! Join the Toddler Mom Community Follow me on Instagram @twinmom_roadmap Watch the YouTube channel Check out the blog…

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This One Thing Shapes Your Toddler’s Behavior and Self-Esteem 25:05

8 weeks ago25:05

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The One Thing That Shapes Toddler Behavior and Self-Esteem In this episode, we explore the key factor that shapes your toddler's behavior and self-esteem - your language and reactions. We'll discuss the concept of the toddler reactivity loop, how to set the stage for better behaviors, and why the attention you give is the attention you get back. Learn practical tips on redirecting rather than reacting and how to use positive praise to improve your toddler's behavior. Find out how your words and tone can shape your child's self-image and behavior over time. Plus, get a sneak peek into my upcoming book, 'The Perfectly Imperfect Family,' launching on May 8th. Heather announced her upcoming co-authored book, 'The Perfectly Imperfect Family: Real Solutions for Mindful Parents Navigating Today’s Biggest Challenges,' which offers practical wisdom from experts on navigating challenging family situations: https://www.heatherschalkparenting.com/signup-list-for-book 00:00 Introduction: The Key to Shaping Toddler Behavior 00:55 Setting the Stage for a Positive Day 01:39 Understanding the Toddler Reactivity Loop 05:28 The Power of Positive Attention 10:45 The Impact of Language and Reactions 23:34 Conclusion and Upcoming Events "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like separation anxiety, I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast —It's Coming Soon! So STAY TUNED! And be sure to grab the 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Free Class and guide! ------------------------------------------------------ Ready to get your toddler to listen in 2 seconds? Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children who listen in 2 seconds. Sing up for 'The Perfectly Imperfect Family: Real Solutions for Mindful Parents Navigating Today’s Biggest Challenges" Book Launch Special for $1.99 here! Check out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course! Grab the 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Free Class and guide! Join the Toddler Mom Community Follow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparenting Watch the YouTube channel Check out the blog…

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The Toddler Discipline Script That Backfires & What to Do Instead 22:24

9 weeks ago22:24

22:24

The Toddler Discipline Script That Backfires & What to Do Instead In this episode, we're diving into the shortcomings of widely shared toddler discipline advice, particularly the 'validation boundary method.' Learn why popular scripts like 'It's okay to be mad, but we don't hit' can backfire, reinforcing unwanted behaviors and leading to parental burnout. We'll explore eight key reasons why this approach is ineffective and offer alternative strategies that focus on proactive, compassionate, and effective discipline techniques that are just a small tweak to change that could make a huge impact. Discover the importance of clear modeling, co-regulation, and addressing sensory needs to help toddlers manage their emotions constructively. Also, get a sneak peek into our upcoming book, 'The Perfectly Imperfect Family,' and how it can be a valuable resource for mindful parenting. Heather announced her upcoming co-authored book, 'The Perfectly Imperfect Family: Real Solutions for Mindful Parents Navigating Today’s Biggest Challenges,' which offers practical wisdom from experts on navigating challenging family situations: https://www.heatherschalkparenting.com/signup-list-for-book 00:00 Introduction to Toddler Discipline Issues 00:46 The Validation Boundary Method Explained 02:06 Why the Script Fails: Eight Reasons 07:55 Upcoming Book Announcement 09:41 Empathy and Emotional Attunement 16:20 The Importance of Visual and Physical Cues 18:29 Parental Burnout and Final Thoughts "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like separation anxiety, I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast —It's Coming Soon! So STAY TUNED! And be sure to grab the 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Free Class and guide! ------------------------------------------------------ Ready to get your toddler to listen in 2 seconds? Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children who listen in 2 seconds. Sing up for 'The Perfectly Imperfect Family: Real Solutions for Mindful Parents Navigating Today’s Biggest Challenges" Book Launch Special for $1.99 here! Check out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course! Grab the 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Free Class and guide! Join the Toddler Mom Community Follow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparenting Watch the YouTube channel Check out the blog…

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Finding a Good Fit Babysitter for your Toddler 23:14

10 weeks ago23:14

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How to Find the Perfect Babysitter for Your Toddler In this episode, Heather shares valuable insights on finding a babysitter that suits your toddler's temperament and aligns with your parenting style. She discusses emotional fit, parenting style alignment, and offers tips on managing time duration and transitions. Heather shares personal experiences and emphasizes the importance of interview questions, setting expectations, and trusting your intuition. She also introduces her upcoming co-authored book, 'The Perfectly Imperfect Family: Real Solutions for Mindful Parents Navigating Today’s Biggest Challenges,' which offers practical wisdom from experts on navigating challenging family situations: https://www.heatherschalkparenting.com/signup-list-for-book 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:59 Emotional Fit and Parenting Style Alignment 10:35 Time, Duration and Separation Tips 16:40 Logistical Fit and Final Thoughts 21:21 Conclusion and Encouragement "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like separation anxiety, I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast —It's Coming Soon! So STAY TUNED! And be sure to grab the 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Free Class and guide! ------------------------------------------------------ Ready to get your toddler to listen in 2 seconds? Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children who listen in 2 seconds. Sing up for 'The Perfectly Imperfect Family: Real Solutions for Mindful Parents Navigating Today’s Biggest Challenges" Book Launch Special for $1.99 here! Check out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course! Grab the 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Free Class and guide! Join the Toddler Mom Community Follow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparenting Watch the YouTube channel Check out the blog…

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From Books to Breakthroughs: The Parenting Advice That Changed My Life with Taylor Greenberg 31:05

11 weeks ago31:05

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Do you feel as though you've read every parenting book out there and tried all the advice without seeing any of the results? When we're looking for help for battling difficult behaviors, it seems that every parent "expert" out there has the solution to our struggles. But when we try to implement their advice, it either doesn't quite work out like we hoped or we burnout before we see results. Taylor Greenberg was experiencing this exact same thing. As a burnt-out mama of two under two, Taylor struggled to put all the pieces together in her parenting journey. In this episode, Taylor shares her experience with us and talks about how she went from reading all the books to finally reaching a breakthrough. Come join in on this exciting conversation! About Taylor: Taylor is the founder of MOMumental, an app created to help toddler moms connect with real, effective parenting advice from experts. With MOMumental, we have done all the research for you when it comes to finding community reviewed courses and coaches that are a perfect fit, no matter what issue you are experiencing in your toddlerhood journey and beyond. Taylor is a Work From Home Mom to two toddler girls and lives in Washington, D.C. with her husband and two dogs. She has a passion for helping moms save time, money, and their sanity, by making parenting just a little bit easier. Connect with Taylor on Instagram and download the MOMumental app here ! ------------------------------------------------------ Ready to get your toddler to listen in 2 seconds? Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children who listen in 2 seconds. Check out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course! Grab the 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Free Class and guide! Join the Toddler Mom Community Follow me on Instagram @twinmom_roadmap Watch the YouTube channel Check out the blog…

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Separation Anxiety in Toddlers: What to Do When Mom Leaves 16:38

11 weeks ago16:38

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Overcoming Toddler Separation Anxiety: Tips and Strategies In this episode of the Toddler Toolkit Podcast, Heather tackles the challenging issue of separation anxiety in toddlers. Drawing from her personal experiences as a mother of twins, she provides practical advice on how to help toddlers feel secure when parents leave. You'll discover why separation anxiety happens, the importance of predictable routines, and how to foster positive interactions with other caregivers and the non-preferred parent. Heather also emphasizes the role of dad in easing separation anxiety and shares strategies to make transitions smoother. Don't miss her free tantrum and behavior guide for more helpful tips. 00:00 Introduction to Toddler Toolkit Podcast 00:16 Understanding Separation Anxiety in Toddlers 01:38 Personal Experiences with Separation Anxiety 04:21 Preparing Your Toddler for Separation 08:15 Strengthening Toddler-Dad Relationships 15:10 Recap and Final Thoughts "If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like separation anxiety, I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast —It's Coming Soon! So STAY TUNED! And be sure to grab the 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Free Class and guide! ------------------------------------------------------ Ready to get your toddler to listen in 2 seconds? Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children who listen in 2 seconds. Check out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course! Grab the 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Free Class and guide! Join the Toddler Mom Community Follow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparenting Watch the YouTube channel Check out the blog…

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5 Common Pitfalls of Toddler Boundaries and How to Avoid Them 11:01

19 weeks ago11:01

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We hear from all the parenting advice how important it is to set boundaries and limits with our children to keep them from doing the things we don't want them to do. But what if they don't work? Boundaries are a great tool to have in your parenting toolkit, and you should use them when appropriate, but they aren't the only parenting tool or strategy we can use to be effective in our parenting. When used alone, boundaries can actually have the opposite effect with our children as they teach what NOT to do but don't teach what TO do. So we need to add in some additional support to see real results and real behavior changes. Join Heather in this episode as she discusses the 5 common pitfalls of toddler boundaries and how to avoid them! By the end of the episode, you'll feel more confident in your parenting tactics and know just what to do when your toddler just won't stop pushing those boundaries! It's time to get out your toddler toolkit and make room for another helpful tool in your parenting journey. And be sure to grab the 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Free Class and guide! ------------------------------------------------------ Ready to get your toddler to listen in 2 seconds? Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children who listen in 2 seconds. Check out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course! Grab the 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Free Class and guide! Join the Toddler Mom Community Follow me on Instagram @twinmom_roadmap Watch the YouTube channel Check out the blog…

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The KEY to Parenting Your Toddler with LESS STRESS in 2025 14:07

21 weeks ago14:07

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Are you ready to set new parenting goals for the new year that don't cause more tension, burnout, and frustration for your family?! Make 2025 the year of calmer parenting, fewer tantrums, and a happier home with a simple strategy that actually works! Listen in to learn the KEY to parenting your toddler with less stress this year, and join Heather in doing a quick activity that will help you map out your goals with ease. More than just New Year's resolutions, these goals will not only be your goals for the rest of the year but will become your family's way of life! This episode is a must-not-miss for any toddler parent who's tired of just getting by and is ready to thrive! It's time to get out your toddler toolkit and make room for another helpful tool in your parenting journey. And be sure to grab the 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Free Class and guide! ------------------------------------------------------ Ready to get your toddler to listen in 2 seconds? Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children who listen in 2 seconds. Check out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course! Grab the 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Free Class and guide! Join the Toddler Mom Community Follow me on Instagram @twinmom_roadmap Watch the YouTube channel Check out the blog…

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The 7 Best Tips for a Tantrum-Free Holiday with Your Toddler 44:02

23 weeks ago44:02

44:02

Feeling stressed about navigating the holidays with your toddler? From new routines (or lack thereof), family gatherings, fun outings, travel, and, of course, all the fun new gadgets and toys, the holidays can be a major meltdown generator for your toddler. However, you don't have to figure it all out on your own or convince yourself that you just have to push through the tantrums. Join Heather in this episode as she shares 7 tips for navigating the holidays with ease, tackling toddler tantrums, and creating a season full of joy and connection! If you'd love to relax and enjoy the holiday season with your toddler but aren't sure if it's even really possible, this is one episode you won't want to miss. It's time to get out your toolkit and make room for another helpful tool in parenting your toddler with grace and calm! ------------------------------------------------------ Ready to get your toddler to listen in 2 seconds? Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children who listen in 2 seconds. Check out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course! Grab the 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Free Class and guide! Join the Toddler Mom Community Follow me on Instagram @twinmom_roadmap Watch the YouTube channel Check out the blog…

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What Every Mom Needs to Know About Food Allergies with Corinna Meckelborg 40:22

25 weeks ago40:22

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Does your child have food allergies or sensitivities and you're worried about keeping them safe, especially during the holiday season? The holidays usually mean lots of gatherings, which usually means lots of food, and it can be a major source of anxiety and overwhelm for parents when their little ones can't have certain foods. Instead of skipping the holiday get-togethers all-together or pulling your hair out from the stress of making sure nothing off-limits is within your toddler's reach, listen in to this insightful discussion with Heather and Corinna! Corinna Meckelborg is a multiple, 17-year food allergy mama turned Food Allergy Mentor. She helps food allergy parents keep their kids safe while living a normal life & worrying less with her Podcast and Business, Friendly Pantry Consulting. In this episode, Heather and Corinna discuss simple and effective ways to handle this challenging and often stressful toddler need! If your toddler has food allergies or intolerances and you're not quite sure how to navigate it all, this is an episode you don't want to miss! It's time to get out your toolkit and make room for another helpful tool in parenting your toddler with grace and calm. Connect with Corinna on her website , Instagram , and podcast . And be sure to sign up for the Tantrum Free Holidays Workshop today to learn how to enjoy your holiday season without the meltdowns! ------------------------------------------------------ Ready to get your toddler to listen in 2 seconds? Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children who listen in 2 seconds. Check out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course! Sign up for the Tantrum Free Holidays Workshop ! Grab the 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Free Class and guide! Join the Toddler Mom Community Follow me on Instagram @twinmom_roadmap Watch the YouTube channel Check out the blog…

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Handling the "No" Phase: How to Get Your Toddler to Listen Without a Battle 10:55

28 weeks ago10:55

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Check out the brand new mini-course, Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler in 7 Days ! If you're ready to stop the meltdowns and finally enjoy more peaceful days with your toddler, then this is a course you don't want to miss! Take advantage of the pre-sale price now before it's gone and the price goes up! Do you feel like you're going to lose your cool if you hear your toddler shout, "NO!" at you one more time? The "no" phase is a frustrating one! Our toddlers seem to fight us at every turn and can make even the simplest task seem impossible. No wonder we're exhausted and about ready to throw in the towel! Thankfully, there is a way to make it through. Join Heather in this episode as she discusses this particularly difficult phase our toddlers go through and how we can handle it with grace and calm while also getting our toddler to listen without a battle. If you're wondering when you toddler will ever stop telling you "no" and just wish they'd listen more, then this is the episode for you! It's time to get out your toolkit and make room for another helpful tool in parenting your toddler with grace and calm. And be sure to check out Heather's brand new mini-course, Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days! If you're ready to stop the meltdowns and finally enjoy more peaceful days with your toddler, then this is a course you don't want to miss! Take advantage of the pre-sale price now before it's gone and the price goes up! ------------------------------------------------------ Ready to get your toddler to listen in 2 seconds? Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two! Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children who listen in 2 seconds. Check out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course! Grab the 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind, and Caring Toddler Free Class and guide! Join the Toddler Mom Community Follow me on Instagram @twinmom_roadmap Watch the YouTube channel Check out the blog…

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Why Toddlers Really Throw Tantrums 11:20

29 weeks ago11:20