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Why Do We Keep Dating People Who Are Wrong For Us? Ft. Jelika - Ep.117

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Special thanks to Jelika for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show
Jelika joins Zach to explore dating dynamics in Los Angeles versus New York, revealing how narcissistic tendencies manifest differently across these cities.
• New York daters tend to be "American Psycho"-style finance bros who are direct but ambitious
• Los Angeles dating scene filled with creative industry people searching for the "next best thing"
• Narcissistic partners often appear nice initially but gradually reveal toxicity after gaining trust
• The "perfection paralysis" of LA dating prevents people from committing to real relationships
• Social media creates unrealistic beauty and lifestyle standards, especially in major cities
• Dating resembles a shopping mall where higher "floors" of desirable qualities require equivalent value in return
• The misalignment between what people say they want versus what they actually prioritize in partners
• Financial stability is a reasonable expectation in relationship partners versus pure gold-digging
• Ambitious dreams should be balanced with realistic backup plans, especially in LA's creative industries
• Authenticity and good character matter more than superficial qualities for sustainable relationships
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Chapters

1. Toxic Dating and Narcissistic Relationships (00:00:00)

2. Dating in New York vs LA (00:08:57)

3. Career Ambitions and Dating Expectations (00:20:35)

4. Social Media's Impact on Modern Dating (00:31:43)

5. Celebrity Culture and Status in LA (00:42:17)

6. Authenticity and Realistic Dating Standards (00:52:24)

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Special thanks to Jelika for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show
Jelika joins Zach to explore dating dynamics in Los Angeles versus New York, revealing how narcissistic tendencies manifest differently across these cities.
• New York daters tend to be "American Psycho"-style finance bros who are direct but ambitious
• Los Angeles dating scene filled with creative industry people searching for the "next best thing"
• Narcissistic partners often appear nice initially but gradually reveal toxicity after gaining trust
• The "perfection paralysis" of LA dating prevents people from committing to real relationships
• Social media creates unrealistic beauty and lifestyle standards, especially in major cities
• Dating resembles a shopping mall where higher "floors" of desirable qualities require equivalent value in return
• The misalignment between what people say they want versus what they actually prioritize in partners
• Financial stability is a reasonable expectation in relationship partners versus pure gold-digging
• Ambitious dreams should be balanced with realistic backup plans, especially in LA's creative industries
• Authenticity and good character matter more than superficial qualities for sustainable relationships
Follow us on social media and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform!
PLEASE SUBSCRIBE AND LIKE
Stay updated on every new exciting and unique episode filled with conversations and stories you have not heard ever before.
Brand New Episode every Monday at 7pm PST
Listen on ANY Podcast Streaming Service
Apple Podcast: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableApple
Spotify: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableSpotify
Google: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableGoogle
Amazon: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableAmazon
AND MANY MORE
Follow /Subscribe on
instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unattainableShow
Twitter: https://twitter.com/unattainableshw
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unattainableShow
Youtube: https://smarturl.it/UnattainableYoutube
Thank you for watching :)

  continue reading

Chapters

1. Toxic Dating and Narcissistic Relationships (00:00:00)

2. Dating in New York vs LA (00:08:57)

3. Career Ambitions and Dating Expectations (00:20:35)

4. Social Media's Impact on Modern Dating (00:31:43)

5. Celebrity Culture and Status in LA (00:42:17)

6. Authenticity and Realistic Dating Standards (00:52:24)

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