55. From Financial Struggle to Stability: How One Family Flipped the Script (with special guest Patricia Lewis)

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Patricia Lewis shares her remarkable journey from financial struggle to stability by challenging traditional gender roles and overcoming the shame of accepting public assistance. After marrying her husband who she met while teaching in Japan, they returned to the U.S. to start a family in the midst of the Great Recession. Through the birth of their five sons and many job changes, they faced years of financial hardship before finding an unconventional solution.

Key points from Tricia's story:
• Growing up Mennonite with a father who taught practical skills regardless of gender
• Becoming reacquainted with her husband online while teaching in Japan and developing a relationship built on honest communication
• Struggling through dozens of jobs, medical bills, and raising five boys born via C-sections within eight years
• Confronting the shame of accepting public assistance while living at poverty level
• Transforming their finances by flipping traditional roles – Tricia becoming the primary breadwinner while her husband drove a school bus and homeschooled their sons
• Learning to counter negative self-talk and treat ourselves with the same kindness we show others
• Practical tips for financial independence: knowing your accounts, passwords, and financial situation
• Creative ways to stretch resources like buying turkeys in bulk during sales
For women facing financial insecurity, know what your plan is going forward. Identify your networks, consider your abilities, and understand your current financial situation – including accounts, debts, and assets. Don't let shame prevent you from using available resources designed to help you reach stability.
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https://www.facebook.com/patricia.a.lewis

https://bsky.app/profile/hopenafuture.bsky.social

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Chapters

1. Introduction to Hosts and Guest (00:00:00)

2. Tricia's Unconventional Relationship Journey (00:10:25)

3. Growing Up Mennonite: Head Coverings & Skills (00:19:15)

4. Financial Struggles and Medical Assistance Shame (00:30:15)

5. The High Cost of Being Poor (00:45:57)

6. Flipping Traditional Roles for Financial Freedom (01:02:03)

7. Breaking the Cycle of Negative Self-Talk (01:14:30)

8. Practical Tips for Financial Security (01:27:03)